Fragged said:.....You got lucky QCG, there is no sure fire way to channel anger. You been watching too much Oprah.
quitecoolguy said:You are defenitly wrong on that one buddy..I am also an ex cop. An if you dont learn to channel you anger it can get you killed. I have been in several incidents that i have been hot as a damn fire cracker , and could have lost my cool, but you are taught at the academy how to channel anger and even how to dissapate adrenalin when you get an adrenalin dump. So you can channel anger..hell in the job i do know which is working with childern with Autism..i have been hit square in the face with a handful of poop. BUDDY i was a mad as a black man my size can be..but knowing how to channel my anger allowed me to keep my cool and do my job. It might just be that you dont know how..but it aint got nothing to do with OPRAH![]()
Flex said:That's very interesting! How does one dissipate adrenalin?
Flex
Neil said:If he keeps stanking in front of you, some have been known to 'accidentaly' miscue and send the cueball flying at their head. (but, of course, I would never recommend that)
quitecoolguy said:You are defenitly wrong on that one buddy..I am also an ex cop. An if you dont learn to channel you anger it can get you killed. I have been in several incidents that i have been hot as a damn fire cracker , and could have lost my cool, but you are taught at the academy how to channel anger and even how to dissapate adrenalin when you get an adrenalin dump. So you can channel anger..hell in the job i do know which is working with childern with Autism..i have been hit square in the face with a handful of poop. BUDDY i was a mad as a black man my size can be..but knowing how to channel my anger allowed me to keep my cool and do my job. It might just be that you dont know how..but it aint got nothing to do with OPRAH![]()
ace911 said:I am playing at Masters Billiards in Queens in the weekly open tournament. During a match, and Don Montalvo whose screen name on AZ is poolmouse, decides to come over sit down next to my table and talk smack about my game and tries to shark me during my match. I have earphones on so I am blocking out most of what he is doing, but he is moving around, fidgeting, making gestures, and cheering loudly for my opponent while I am shooting. He gets me, I?m shooting the 8 ball on the hill, and I miss the shot. My opponent runs out, and breaks and runs the next rack to win the set. This guy was also waiting to play the winner of the match and he wanted me to lose because he obviously wanted to play the weaker opponent.
I have a question? What am I supposed to do with people like this? I could follow the lead of other players who would just get into a fight right away.
During my match I was trying to ignore it and practice getting mentally tougher, but obviously I failed and lost the set. Why are people like this? Even if I didn?t like someone I would not purposely shark them. I have some kind of ethics, I guess it just lacks in some people.
poolmouse said:Mike, I'm sorry you're feeling so down.
If you're trying to "toughen up", ditch the iPod. Sound isn't the only form of distraction. In your quest to acoustically buffer yourself, you're making yourself more sensitive to your visual surroundings.
I'm sure you've been told a million and seven times, you shoot way too slow. Most of us believe you do so to disrupt your opponent's rhythm. It's quite an effective way to shark your opponent while seeming innocent.
I'm disappointed that you decided to shine the light away from your opponent who quite simply outplayed you. It's ironic that, unlike you, she doesn't spend an enormous amount of time practicing. Sometimes too much practice isn't such a good thing. How many hours do you spend practicing per week? 40? 50? 60?
You seem annoyed that spectators cheered your opponent on. I wasn't the first to applaud her, but as soon as one or two people started, it was very difficult to not join in. Something tells me you're annoyed at having lost to someone you usually beat handily, but who simply played better than you.
I think you should take a step back from the table. Maybe take some time off and find yourself before you spiral further downward. It's going to be interesting observing you from now on, especially after reading your post. Now that you've exposed a bit more about yourself than you probably realized.
Poolmouse
Yeah its a good idea to lose the earphones.I knew a kid who was playing a match,he was on 2 and was told but didnt hear it,he was 3 fouled and took his head phones off and started to complain that it was bs but hey you gotta be on your game and he was warned,the hell with headphones,i cant even stand the guys who wear them playing poker.sjm said:I can't say I approve of this thread. Calling out a poster who, within his rights, chooses to post anonymously over such a trivilaity is way out of line.
I know Poolmouse well and he's a good guy, a good player, and he knows the etiquette of the poolroom. If he cheered on your opponent, even boisterously, that's just something you need to learn to deal with. As others have noted, you had the option to speak to the tournament director if you felt sharked, and you did not do so.
As for your wearing the earphones, I can say with complete certainty that I would have been rooting for your opponent, too. They can do as they please while warming up, but I consider it an insult when my opponent insists on playing with earphones. Interactions with my opponent, even if not very numerous and even if only between racks, is part of the joy of playing pool. Block out your opponent with earphones, and the game becomes less enjoyable, which perhaps, in part, explains your very bitter post.
I think Poolmouse is right in suggesting that you should lose the earphones. Learn to enjoy opponent's company more and you will be more relaxed when you play, which might just translate into better play.
Anyway, better luck in your next tournament.
Dead Money said:After this thread those guys at the pool hall that hear about this thread(oh they will......) are going to have a field day ****ing with the original thread starter.
sjm said:I can't say I approve of this thread. Calling out a poster who, within his rights, chooses to post anonymously over such a trivilaity is way out of line.
I know Poolmouse well and he's a good guy, a good player, and he knows the etiquette of the poolroom. If he cheered on your opponent, even boisterously, that's just something you need to learn to deal with. As others have noted, you had the option to speak to the tournament director if you felt sharked, and you did not do so.
As for your wearing the earphones, I can say with complete certainty that I would have been rooting for your opponent, too. They can do as they please while warming up, but I consider it an insult when my opponent insists on playing with earphones. Interactions with my opponent, even if not very numerous and even if only between racks, is part of the joy of playing pool. Block out your opponent with earphones, and the game becomes less enjoyable, which perhaps, in part, explains your very bitter post.
I think Poolmouse is right in suggesting that you should lose the earphones. Learn to enjoy opponent's company more and you will be more relaxed when you play, which might just translate into better play.
Anyway, better luck in your next tournament.
Dead Money said:After this thread those guys at the pool hall that hear about this thread(oh they will......) are going to have a field day ****ing with the original thread starter.
ace911 said:I know I take my time when I play, I?m trying to give myself the best opportunity to win.
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Please guys just let it rest.
I agree that slow players are a real drag, and have more often than not, 'pharked' my game. There are slow players by nature, that need to be warned to pick up the pace, and there are players that play slow to shark their opponents that need to be warned.poolmouse said:Ya think?Several people called and emailed me about this thread. It's pretty funny. I remember the tournaent director announcing a game a few months back when a top ranked player showed up for one of our tournaents..."the world's greatest player vs the world's slowest player". He brought the house own with that one.
Poolmouse
poolmouse said:Ya think?
Several people called and emailed me about this thread. It's pretty funny. I remember the tournament director announcing a game a few months back when a top ranked player showed up and had to play Michael Wong..."The world's greatest player vs the world's slowest player!".
He brought the house own with that one.
Poolmouse