Let me start with the intense moment first.
One of the I am captain of was in our 9 ball tri cups this past weekend. We made it to the finals and was cruising along building a comfortable lead each match. It all came to a screeching halt in the 3rd rack of the 4th match. My player...who happens to be my co captain received bih and was setting up to make a shot.
I did not agree with his shot selection and called a time out. Well he couldn't have been any more upset over that than he would have been if I had told him I had been screwing his ole lady. During our conversation on what he wanted to do vs what I thought he should do he grabs for the cue ball and says fine. Well lets just say I was not a happy camper when the cue ball slips and rolls up against another ball causing a foul.
I told him his carelessness just cost the team several points and if it had been a close game that foul could have resulted in us losing the entire match. Well we both cooled down some and he went on to win his match and we won the 5 th one with ease and won our bracket and moving on to ltc in a few weeks.
We did not talk to each other again until last night at league. I held an impromptu team meeting about our winning tri cups and brought up that time out.
I stated that I was taking partial responsibility for that incident because I did not inform the team that I would be calling time outs when ever I felt one was necessary and that they are not used to me calling time outs as I never call one during regular session.
My co captain said that he had been thinking about the incident and playing my strategy over and over in his head. He said he realized he acted inappropriately and that I did make the right call on that shot. Fwiw he is a 4 and I am a 6. I went on to tell he team I was proud of how well they all played including him even though he was intending to make a bone headed move on that shot . The whole team got a laugh out of that and all was well with the entire team.
When I throw my co captain out I told the team lets all mess with him about time outs. I said ...when he starts to make his first shot lets all yell time out together. They all readily agreed. When he gets down to shoot we all yell time out. He jumps up and looks at us with a wtf ? Expression and then starts smiling and continues to shoot. Next rack we do the same and it really messed him up.
I go over and tell the opposing captain what's going on and him and his player are cool with it so we yell time out several times. Even when we dont yell time out he starts to shoot ...stops...looks over at us like ...are you going to call one ? Silent treatment. He gets down to shoot and we yell time out.
Well he was so flustered he lost the match. Shakes his opponents hand and comes over to us laughing and said he guessed he deserved that.
I think instead of having 8 individual players we are finally starting to jell as a team.
One of the I am captain of was in our 9 ball tri cups this past weekend. We made it to the finals and was cruising along building a comfortable lead each match. It all came to a screeching halt in the 3rd rack of the 4th match. My player...who happens to be my co captain received bih and was setting up to make a shot.
I did not agree with his shot selection and called a time out. Well he couldn't have been any more upset over that than he would have been if I had told him I had been screwing his ole lady. During our conversation on what he wanted to do vs what I thought he should do he grabs for the cue ball and says fine. Well lets just say I was not a happy camper when the cue ball slips and rolls up against another ball causing a foul.
I told him his carelessness just cost the team several points and if it had been a close game that foul could have resulted in us losing the entire match. Well we both cooled down some and he went on to win his match and we won the 5 th one with ease and won our bracket and moving on to ltc in a few weeks.
We did not talk to each other again until last night at league. I held an impromptu team meeting about our winning tri cups and brought up that time out.
I stated that I was taking partial responsibility for that incident because I did not inform the team that I would be calling time outs when ever I felt one was necessary and that they are not used to me calling time outs as I never call one during regular session.
My co captain said that he had been thinking about the incident and playing my strategy over and over in his head. He said he realized he acted inappropriately and that I did make the right call on that shot. Fwiw he is a 4 and I am a 6. I went on to tell he team I was proud of how well they all played including him even though he was intending to make a bone headed move on that shot . The whole team got a laugh out of that and all was well with the entire team.
When I throw my co captain out I told the team lets all mess with him about time outs. I said ...when he starts to make his first shot lets all yell time out together. They all readily agreed. When he gets down to shoot we all yell time out. He jumps up and looks at us with a wtf ? Expression and then starts smiling and continues to shoot. Next rack we do the same and it really messed him up.
I go over and tell the opposing captain what's going on and him and his player are cool with it so we yell time out several times. Even when we dont yell time out he starts to shoot ...stops...looks over at us like ...are you going to call one ? Silent treatment. He gets down to shoot and we yell time out.
Well he was so flustered he lost the match. Shakes his opponents hand and comes over to us laughing and said he guessed he deserved that.
I think instead of having 8 individual players we are finally starting to jell as a team.