If you whine, it effectively gives you a rep.
As to sportsmanship, here’s another grampa story:
As a cadet at USAFA, I had a 6 week boxing class. At the end for my grade, I had a 3-3 minute rounds fight. It was taped. The fights started with the lightest first. I think I came in at 155 and 5’10”. My advantage was my orangutan like arm span.
The first couple of fights involving patty cake and C grades.
My opponent was a Mexican National (hmmm, I knew why he was a cadet). We were equal weight and height. After watching the first fights, he came to me and said. “You see how those guys are just doing patty cake and taking a C. You want to d the same? “
Hmmm, honor code:
Will not lie, cheat or steal. Nor tolerate any that do.
So my excuse is;
The devil made me do it. I looked him in the eye and said, “Ok” . I had been through basic training with this guy and didn’t like him.
The bell rings, we walk together and touch gloves. Stepping back, I planted my right rear foot and launched my best right (sloppy and over the top) it landed and uh stunned him. 16 ounce gloves and head gear. Didn’t have the skills to take him out. I won the first and possibly 2nd but call it a draw. He won the 3rd.
The coach said we had no skills or techniques but gave us both A’s for heart. As we went at it. We parted with respect and better understanding.