KD
Hit of a cue is a very personal thing, what you like in the "hit" of the cue may not be what others like.
About the steel joint comment by the hall of fame cuemaker, please read my post again, you are misquoting it and the intent. The point was, as long as a joint is constructed CORRECTLY it does not matter what it is made of. As far as southwest cues are concerned yes they don't core (personally I wish they would just so the weights of the ebony cues could be controlled). Maple SW cues "hit the best"well that is your opinion, I personally like the hit of the ebony SW cues. I also like the hit of other styles of cues too.
Think about it, if there was one style of cue that "hit" so much better than others, why wouldn't everyone just play with that style of cue? They don't because again the hit of a cue is a very personal, subjective thing.
You say you can feel the vibrations through your cue, well that is nothing special as everyone can (if they have feeling in their hands and figures) what you avoided was your explanation as to how you can modify your stroke while the tip is in contact with the cueball based on your "feel" Remember this all has to take place in a .002 second time period, and the vibrations you feel in your fingers occur after the cueball has left the tip. It is a scientific impossibility, but if you "believe" you can do this, well more power to you.
I have steel jointed, flat faced wood to wood, and ivory jointed cues I can tell you with all honesty that if I was asked to ID the cues or the joint types in a controlled study where I could not ID the cue visually, I would not be able to by feel alone.
That is a dirty little secret I have learned from my 35 years of pool playing experience.
Here is some more information on Tuning Forks for you.....I don't think you will find anything here to support your opinion that the resonance box needs to be made of the same wood types to transfer the sound vibrations. If you find documentation of that I would love to read it.
http://www.physicsclassroom.com/Class/sound/u11l4b.cfm
I have nothing more to add to this discussion.