I was playing in my own straight pool match a few tables down from each of these matches this day. I only heard the son say a few things, but wasn't sure what was going on in your match, Jim. I recall he said out loud he was "flustered" (or something like that) because of something that had happened. I assumed it was about that shot now.
Mike, I had no idea this was going on during your match! This may sound silly, but I'm impressed you didn't ***** to me about the incident. We talked for a while after my match concluded and you could have easily shared your frustration, but you didn't bad mouth him at all. Most people would chomp at the bit to whine and make fun of other players and their antics.
Instead, I can tell you gave the incident some serious thought and then decided to post about it for feedback and sharing.
I could learn a lesson from this about keeping my thoughts to myself right after "situations".