'More' or 'less' are comparison terms. Revo deflects more than some shafts, less than others. It depends on what we are comparing it with.
Missing balls fat due could indicate more deflection than they are used to if they are using outside spin. With inside spin it would be the opposite. Assuming he meant outside spin was resulting in fat hits, then yes, this is likely the reason.
As mentioned above, deflection changes the cue ball trajectory immediately off the tip. Curve takes place as the cue ball travels. Throw then occurs at the moment of object ball contact.
I use the Revo and my experience is this: It DOES deflect more than my prior 314-2 which had a very thin taper and very low deflection. It also seems to hit a bit harder which makes it easier for me to shoot firm and accurately on long shots. When using sidespin this can mean the hook of the curve doesn't take as soon and can make it seem to curve less which generates the same result as more deflection (i.e. it deflects off the tip and then slides all the way to the object ball without having time to curve back the other way much). I could be wrong on some of the nuanced physics, just my feeling as a player.
In the end I didn't buy the Revo for lower deflection or as a magic bullet. I just was tired of nicks in my cue, shafts wearing down over the years forcing me to switch shafts every so often and adjust again and again, and inconsistencies based on wear that changed my hit depending on which part of my cue was facing up. I really just wanted something I could buy, get used to, and play with for 10-20 years without giving a thought to maintenance or evolution. That is what I got and that is all I wanted. Totally satisfied Revo customer here. As for the playing better, I'll do that with hard work thank you very much.