John is like a lot of guys , he enjoys the battle and overcoming his fears, and likes the adrenaline rush he gets, from being near the edge. {He just happens to have a little more money than most}
What he doesn't get ,{ or refuses to acknowledge} is that there are thousands of guys out there he can't beat, that almost never play a game of pool , unless they know they are supposed to win, with just enough of a struggle to keep them interested.
He should have learned his lesson from this one.
I don't blame Lou for taking him off , I don't think it was about the money at first, I think John did the same thing here, he did in the other situation.
It started out as one thing , then he made the conditions right financially, to take him off, and that's what happened.
He took the blame for the latest one at least , not sure about this one , did damage control for his business, and hopefully he will stay within his means in the future.
I wish him good luck.
I have always been aware that there are thousands better than me and tens of thousands worse than me. Lou didn't do shit. His backer made this match. I offered this game ten years before the match went off. The only reason it never went off before is that lou was scared.
And this match would never have happened if lot didn't get a surprise backer who hated me.
For all my craziness i can play a little. This match was actually the absolute worst form i have ever displayed. But the fact is that i have run 98 in straight pool, five racks of eight ball, five racks of nine ball, i have run 14 in one pocket. I can play a little. But for this match i simply didn't prepare properly, mentally or physically. It was at that time my biggest money match and with a decade of bad blood in the mix i simply dogged it.
I am not afraid of Lou's game. He is an average player like me who certainly has better form. But in no way do he hustle me. If he did then his backer or the "claimed" line of backers would have showed up and figured out how to make match two happen when i was barking to play.
Here is another tidbit for you, i offered to double the bet and freeze up the entire amount three months before the match. Not only once either. They didn't take it, not a single person stepped up to take that bet.
There are a lot of factors here but the fact is that when you have a sucker on a string and you don't get all the money he is ready to bet then you're not as confident as you think you are that you can win.
You all think that i have only ever lost. I haven't. Just because i don't document every time i have won $500, $800, $1500, $4000..... doesn't mean i have never booked a winner.
Guy in OKC Muffler Don owes me 2k, look it up. That night i win 2700. Went to a one pocket tournament and won around $4000 betting $1800 one game. The one thing i can say proudly is that i don't hustle anyone. I go in and play my heart out and yeah i look like a donkey doing it but the fact is that i am pretty sure i have had more fun and cool experiences in pool than lou has had. I guarantee that my wins that i didn't have to share a dime of were more awesome for me than beating me was for him where he had to share and wouldn't have even played if it weren't for others putting him in.
I won 18000 rmb in China one night. Giving weight to someone who beat me a week earlier for 3000rmb. The rmb was about 6:1usd at that time.
I played a guy $600 a game one pocket who came in with a louie vuiton bag full of money. After two days i was 3 games winner.
So yeah i get it that folks on here want to pass judgement based on what they see on here. But i am 52 years old and have a life outside of the internet. I have been to more places ass played more variations of pool for money than most of the people i know. Yeah i am "out there" at times but at no time an ia heartless nit who ducks someone for ten years and then breaks endlessly about one match where i caught them on a bad day.
I have had people who could never care about losing what i have lost in the the"big matches" i have played and the go-off sum from the other night call me up and tell me not to sweat it so hard and that everyone who is in business gambles every day. And that's true. I didn't lose beyond my means, not to Lou, not to anyone else. I simply lost beyond my reason. All this does is motivate me to become smarter and work harder so that no in the future anyone playing me will have to earn it instead of being given gifts all night.
No, i know my place in the pecking order. Lou might be slightly better but only because i don't train. If i put in half the time practicing that he did it wouldn't be close. That i am sure of.
Hell, i beat him when I literally could not spell one pocket. Now maybe he was setting me up for a future 10k match ten years into the future but i doubt it. Anyway, that's the fact of it.
Continue the judgy analysis...... And... Your right about ego, adrenaline etc...