....I really really from the bottom of my heart do not understand why people think I am a troll. I really really from the bottom of my heart hope someone can explain why and help me.
First thing, some people you will encounter in life are assholes. Nothing you can do there but ignore them the best you can.
Secondly, this forum has had issues with a lot of people over the years coming here to "troll" and start shit. Same people come back after getting banned, over and over again.
Your questions, which I think are mostly honest and sincere are along the lines of things that previous trolls have posted here in the past.
If you want my advice, your questions are from a very inexperienced perspective in this game, it might be best not to ask every question that comes to mind when talking to a group of people who are very experienced. Lots of people on this forums have played and studied pool for several decades.
Questions about spiders in tables blocking balls etc, while good for a smile, has never been a problem, anywhere, at anytime. So when you ask that question to someone (forums included) who have much more knowledge and experience than you, some people are going to think you are trolling or messing with them.
Make sense?