After reading the above, my only tip for you is to pay your dental insurance premiums in a timely manner.
tips on dealing with haters?
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After reading the above, my only tip for you is to pay your dental insurance premiums in a timely manner.
To the OP, I found the source of the hate but first you must understand.
When one points a finger at others, he has three fingers pointing back.
1st finger pointing back? You hate the guy who owns the place, you're killing him and his business but you don't care.
2nd finger, you hate the people in the bar, you feed off their anger, very pathetic.
3rd finger, you hate yourself. You fought hard to be a pro but failed and you know it.
Next time you go, don't play, buy the house a round and do as others have stated, hang around and give advice and stop playing down, go to a real place to play and play up.
Buying rounds is to apologize to the owner for all the patrons who go elsewhere now because of you. Drinks will help his customers as well, they are HIS customers, not yours.
Now like all haters, hate me for my advice, call me a racist or a hater and move on, good day.
SMILE, it's Sunday.
When one points a finger at others, he has three fingers pointing back.
1st finger pointing back? You hate the guy who owns the place, you're killing him and his business but you don't care.
2nd finger, you hate the people in the bar, you feed off their anger, very pathetic.
3rd finger, you hate yourself. You fought hard to be a pro but failed and you know it.
Next time you go, don't play, buy the house a round and do as others have stated, hang around and give advice and stop playing down, go to a real place to play and play up.
Buying rounds is to apologize to the owner for all the patrons who go elsewhere now because of you. Drinks will help his customers as well, they are HIS customers, not yours.
Now like all haters, hate me for my advice, call me a racist or a hater and move on, good day.
SMILE, it's Sunday.
I think this is a great idea...a positive solution to the problem.
Whoever beats him gets his name posted.
I’ve seen tournaments where the owner puts a bonus on the overwhelming favorite.
Me too
"if you don't have something nice to say about someone come sit next to me".
Can't remember who said it but I like it.
jack
"if you don't have something nice to say about someone come sit next to me".
Can't remember who said it but I like it.
jack
Get Out
Many posts here have said what I would say too.
Your ego is your problem. Your ideal world in this bar would be that you are the best player and everyone loves you like some hero superstar.
My advice initially was to quit playing pool in this bar, and just go there to drink and socialize. But since you said you go there to play pool, compete, and not socialize, then go to a pool hall to compete. It's so obvious to most here why people don't like you. Obviously, too, we are only hearing your side of the story, but it's clear to most what your problem is. You seem to be the only one who can't see it. You probably shouldn't even go back to this bar, with all the negativity you've produced there against yourself. Like somebody else has already said, you'll probably just continue as before, because you apparently are not heeding any of the "tips" or advice you came on here to ask for. Maybe you were looking for sympathy. In this case, I would say you may find sympathy in the dictionary between shit and syphilis.
Many posts here have said what I would say too.
Your ego is your problem. Your ideal world in this bar would be that you are the best player and everyone loves you like some hero superstar.
My advice initially was to quit playing pool in this bar, and just go there to drink and socialize. But since you said you go there to play pool, compete, and not socialize, then go to a pool hall to compete. It's so obvious to most here why people don't like you. Obviously, too, we are only hearing your side of the story, but it's clear to most what your problem is. You seem to be the only one who can't see it. You probably shouldn't even go back to this bar, with all the negativity you've produced there against yourself. Like somebody else has already said, you'll probably just continue as before, because you apparently are not heeding any of the "tips" or advice you came on here to ask for. Maybe you were looking for sympathy. In this case, I would say you may find sympathy in the dictionary between shit and syphilis.
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It’s your regular hangout. Play pool to win. Hang with your friends. If you make new ones great. If not don’t worry about it. Don’t listen to those who suggest finding a new hangout that you have been going to for 15 years. Some just hate to lose but I bet they keep coming back in hopes of beating you.
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You labeling them as haters is funny coming from someone doing everything in his power to get hated.
You’ve told us plenty, your right in most podunks your a B or an A or apa7.....in a pool players area you’d be a C+ in old Tulsa that would be a mid 6./10
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JC
Coos Cues
My guess is the OP isn't as good as he thinks.
There is a guy at a bar here who does this exact thing. He fancies himself a local legend.
When me and my buddy come in we throw a quarter up each, run him off the table and then he puts his stick away and leaves. So do we and the patrons love us. Walk in give the bully a black eye and walk out.
JC
JC
Coos Cues
Ah the highly competitive bar banger chick.
The more you write the more I'm convinced this thread is a troll joke.
JC
You cannot be a grown man and not realize that your little effort at suggestive humor was just asking for trouble.
It doesn't matter if the female involved here is the "biggest lay down on a mattress woman alive", a fat pig, a drunk cow, or whatever....she still doesn't want to hear any stuff from a man who talks down to her. Even if she's going full bore at dishing it out herself. That's reality and to deny reality is to have it automatically work against you.
You blundered critically and she burned you for it.
It's you who is lacking in social skills. If you knew how to deal with and manage people, you could probably be rolling in their money by now, have a regular flow of 'customers', and they'd still all be loving you and enjoying losing to you. The owner would be happier than any of them since they'd be staying longer and increasing his cash flow. But, alas, how easily things go wrong..
You will never have peace there. It's too late. Learn from your blunders, go elsewhere, and start over.
Dealing with Haters
Shoot by yourself......
Shoot by yourself......
I've found that most people are predominantly motivated by one of four things: money, power, sex, or recognition.
You seem to be looking mainly for recognition, maybe with some booty on the side.
What you're doing isn't working... Try something else.
To illustrate the point, buying the biggest trophy you can find, putting a strap on it, and using it as a carrying case would probably work better.
You seem to be looking mainly for recognition, maybe with some booty on the side.
What you're doing isn't working... Try something else.
To illustrate the point, buying the biggest trophy you can find, putting a strap on it, and using it as a carrying case would probably work better.
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Thanks man, appreciate that... Many keep mentioning the owner. He's the coolest cat. A great banger himself. Waits in line like everyone else and never cares when he loses. Sometimes he DJs, sometimes he just hangs out. The place makes a killing he's not worried about the money part. One time I broke and ran out on some guy and he started racking again and goes "I'm playing again". The owner didnt like that. He goes he f**ing lost... Pool is a big deal at this place and they take their rules very seriously. If some non-regular gets caught cutting in line and being an ahole security literally throws him out. I can totally see how I would be disliked, there are players who think they can play a little pool who've been coming there a long time and they still havent beaten me once so I get that but I don't get the hate and displaying publicly their hate for me. There are strong players at tourneys who rubbed me the wrong way who beat me in the finals or whatever and I hated losing but I'd still smile, shake hand etc. There's zero chance I'd flip off a stronger player who just destroyed me. I want these haters to work hard come back and beat me. I'm rooting for them. But I won't let them muscle me out. Also like I said I go there because the more I play the better I get. My patterns are getting better because I run the table for 2-6 hours when I go there. At tourneys there's too much down time and you have to travel there.. not worth it.
This is your problem.
You think you are a little rockstar and some of the others think you're a piece of shit.
From reading your "ramblings", you remind me of another person on here always trying to buy or sell cues who wasn't quite right in the head (if you know what I mean).
You need to spend a bit more time learning to write properly so that your "ramblings" are a bit easier to read. If you talk in the same manner that you write, you may sound a bit "looney" in the bar...maybe that is part of the problem.
Just saying.
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