Emily, thanks for posting the match.
I am glad to see you didn't get too discouraged from some of the rude comments and knockers.
Playing-wise, one thing that stood out is - if you have a magic rack and are allowed to break
from the rail, then you should definitely just do basically a stop shot.
Better yet, draw back about a foot (either straight towards your cue tip or
straight up the table towards the head spot). The wing ball should still always go.
I would avoid spinning to the side rail and back. Your cue ball will be less predictable.
And cutting the head ball seems to result in more clusters, like after the break around 17:30.
The slight draw shot will actually cause the one ball to hit just below the side pocket,
then bounce out, leaving you an easy 1-ball in the side to start the rack.
You seem to have good runout skills so I think if you can give yourself this kind of predictable
1 ball you can string together some racks.
As for the clothes... I almost hate to say it, but I think there's a good reason to reconsider them.
Not because some old fashioned uptight guys think it's improper! Nothing wrong with looking hot.
But every girl I ever met is self conscious if she has to stretch for a shot, wearing a mini.
There will be times when one leg has to go across the table to reach a shot.
If thoughts enter your head like "crap, what if someone's looking up my skirt?" then it can
affect your shot. You really don't want stuff like that distracting you when the time comes
to make an important shot. I would also think keeping balance is harder in heels.
Other than that, all I can say is good shooting, and keep at it.