i didnt want to start a war, i was/am proud of the fact as a pool player i never seen any racism, or making fun of a fatmans weight(i'm not that fat/0 or a wheel chair player are any other factor ever interupted the real reason we get along-its pool,
someone started a thread "when did you know when you became a player?" some people dont have that talent- i barely do-to be considered a player, but I knew I had a bond with a whole lot of peope rich poor, white/black. phillipno/gypsys/mexicans etc when we just blended in, i could use any raicial slur infront of anyone of them in jet and they knew it was a joke. we all got along the comrodery minus the differences we all have, it took me a month of playing at my first spot to get to know everyone and be part of the club.
i go to africa every year for a month, now there is racism(the south isnt anything near as bad as africa) and i hate it, but you know what when we almost got charged by a lion on a hunt once, and did get get charged by a elephant, we people were all on the same team, it takes a deep bond or adverse circumstances to bring people together, and pool or near death experiences will do that, that was my point in this thread, were lucky to have a common interest that surpasses racism,
If I did ever see racism in a pool hall or anywhere I'd leave, as far as using a racial term for a particular shot-I would only do it in jest in the presence of that persons race to make sure he knew it was a joke and no harm was ment by that, we did that at a pool room once, hell you woulde have thought we were the biggest raciests on the planet if you heard us talking but if you saw a picture of us playing after hours we were all different, It was just jokes and racial humor which when isnt harmful or meant in a bad sence can be funny-nobodys feelings were ever hurt. That wasnt the intent, it showed how close a family pool can create-something I miss these days. It was racism with permission for humor among us thus it isnt racism just busting balls so to speak. I never saw anyone take offence to anything said-myself included, i had a mullet haircut and weighed 210-they called me' "caption white" because i was a white guy who only listened to rap music. The black guys aways picked on me and would give me a hug 30 seconds later, this is whats missing in pool rooms now days and dosent happen online. the personal contact that makes life special.
thats when you become a player, no matter if you cant make 3 balls in a row, or play like Efren. were all pool players when we cross that hurdle-for me it wasnt a hurdle at all I love all people, i'm just a nice guy. in all my years in a pool room there have been about 6 or 7 guys that i didnt like at all and all but one is white,the other hispanic and it was because of a move he pulled.
long post, but i just dont want this thread to be a war, I want to bring people together and enjoy our common interest. and perhaps let people here knoe me a bit better,
fatboy is at 246 now-i was hungry yesterday