Fran, did it occur to you that more people are coming to this thread for the very same advice the poster is asking about. You think they wouldn't benefit from more general theory that applies to the vast majority of people rather than being tailored to one individual?It will serve you well to stop weighing in on when I try to help players because you don't understand my process. Don't make assumptions about what I know and don't know. If you have a question, then ask it but don't jump to conclusions about me or, yes, I will come at you hard. You don't help players by focusing solely on theory and ignoring other very important signs they give. Until you start to understand the person asking the question and have looked both in and OUT of the box for solutions, you are nothing more than a theorist. That's what makes you an armchair expert.
I can't believe you're actually defending your absurd statement. If anyone is making wild assumptions about someone else it's you.
As I said already, just DM this nonsense, nobody comes to this forum for petty back and forths.