gwvavases said:
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The other responders' answers notwithstanding, I think that since you learned the game and played the game with a house cue between the ages of 12 and 19, you simply feel more at ease with it. I think the other responders' answers regarding shaft size, cue weight/balance, etc., probably have some merit, but I think it's mostly in your head. I recall getting myself a purebred cocker spaniel a number of years ago. As cute and snuggly as she was, she didn't hold a candle to the old mutt I had when I was a kid. Same kind of thing, I think.
If this was happening to me, I think I would try to find a sneaky pete that has all of the characteristics you find most desirable, i.e. get yourself a mutt!
I've shot with a goodly number of various cues, some butt heavy, others very forward weighted, some with super stiff thick conical taper shafts, others with super slim ones, and have owned at least 8 different cues. But there's one that whose hit I like the most of all of them. It may not be the prettiest one, or have the optimal balance point, whereever that is, or be fancy or have perfect points, yada yada yada. But I will tell you it feels great when it hits. And it's straight. It's a lowly Excalibur sneaky pete, probably made with an ebony butt. I've shot with many different shafts on it, an Ed Young custom shaft, Meucci shafts, both stock black-dots and modified blackdots, as well as the conical shaft that came on it. However, the best combination I've found so far is with a Predator 314. The hit is awesome, and it plays great.
It happens quite often that someone asks what kind of cue it is, and of late I've started telling them it really doesn't matter what the brand is, it hits great, and plays perfectly. If they wish, I let them hit some balls with it. When I told them I paid $15 for it on eBay they look incredulous. Some say it's too butt heavy. Let them say that, it plays great.
Perhaps you should look into finding a one piece house cue that plays the way you like, and ask the owner to sell it to you. Offer him more than he paid for it, and he just may let it go. Then take it to a good cue maker and have him make it into a two-piece cue for you. It will be worth the cost, and you'll have just what you want.
I know a cue maker that does all this, refinishes the cue and so on, makes it look brand new, for under $175, if memory serves. Send me a PM if you'd like his name.
Best,
Flex