You're wrong.
"Men work hard on their game to improve relationships with people."
I work hard on my game to try to improve so that I feel good about myself. I don't give a flying fig about relationships with people. The only reason I hang out with my pool team at all is because that's how I...
Why do you get to set the rules for politeness?
Maybe the polite thing for *you* to do is to let other people decide for themselves if they want the attention.