Fake it till you make it.

JoeW

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This is a new technique that I tried last night. It is based on my years of experience as a professional psychologist and scientist. The finding is strong enough that I think that it needs its own thread with some of my other articles. First, the trick and then why it works -- and it does work.

You have a way of walking when you are in a really good mood. Maybe it's that John Travolta walk from "Saturday Night Fever." Whatever it is, there is a bounce to your step, a musical rhythm to your walk that simply feels good. Perhaps you need an Ipod plugged into your ear to get in the mood. Whatever your style is, when you get up to shoot, walk to the table with that walk and that rhythm -- I'm in a great mood walk. It will put you in the right frame of mind and then use your usual techniques for staying in that mood while you walk around the table and shoot.

Here is why it works. Many years ago Bib Latanne from Ohio State University among others were trying to determine if your emotions effect your behavior or if your behavior effects your emotions. The scientists gave something like adrenaline to a group of subjects who thought it was orange juice to see its effect on intellectual performance (yeah we are known for sneaky studies like this).

Anyway the pumped up subject is in a waiting room prior to the intellectual performance test. A confederate of the experimenter comes in and sits down next to the subject. In one situation the confederate is angry and makes ugly statements about the experiment, the subject too gets angry as one way of explaining their pumped up system.

In another situation the confederate starts joking around, laughing and throwing paper airplanes at the waste basket. The subject too easily starts laughing and joking around as the explanation for the adrenaline.

There were other conditions to control for possible problems in the study. This study is often cited as one of the better studies in the social sciences and has been replicated many times.

The conclusion is that our emotions follow our behavior. If we act upbeat, our emotions will shift to upbeat. If we act angry, our emotions will become angry. In general, you can change your emotions by changing your behavior.

If you act upbeat, you will get into an upbeat mood and that will improve your game. Now you can see misses for what they are -- a part of the game.

So, I suggest that you give it a serious try, say 15 - 30 minutes of your upbeat walk and personal tempo to get in the right mood for playing pool. From what we know in the experimental sciences it will improve your game.

Pay it forward and it will make everyone's life / and game better.

There is another aspect of this technique. If you fake it until you make it, no one can get you down because your behavior will constantly bring you back to a better state of mind. You enjoy the game for yourself and the other person's behavior does not affect you.

I have been debating with myself about posting some of my other articles about psychology and pool. With the indulgence of the moderators I will place four or five additional posts that are not copyrighted. Some of these articles were written several years ago and are based on a review of the scientific psychological literature as it applies to playing pool.

They are not copyrighted and can be used by anyone for any purpose though it would be polite to cite the source (Joe Waldron, Ph.D., Psychologist, Youngstown State University) if these ideas are used in other texts.

I am not a professional pool player, but I am a professional psychologist (retired) and these ideas may be of use from that perspective. AZB seems the best place to put this information that others can consider an use as needed.
 
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Oops. Seems that these articles are far too long. So I will contact the mods and see if they can be stored in some sort of archive.
 
ive noticed i have been throwing my stick around and hurling chalk across the pool room a lot lately...no wonder im playing so bad right now guess i have to be more happy when i miss..at this rate ill be happy a lot!!!
 
JoeW said:
Oops. Seems that these articles are far too long. So I will contact the mods and see if they can be stored in some sort of archive.

If you're trying to post a longer article, you should be able to post it as an attachment.
 
Hi Joe, so glad you started this thread as I've just been (re)reading some stuff about emotions and their causes and trying to integrate it into my pool shot recipe.

In my favorite How-to emotional-control book, A New Guide to Rational Living, by the recently deceased Albert Ellis :( :( :( and Robert Harper, they discuss the origin of emotions in the chapter, How You Create Your Feelings. In there, they cite Horace English and Ava English (must be pool related!:D ) from Compreshensive Dictionary of Psychological Terms who say that emotions arise from a 3 way process:

1.) Through some kind of physical stimulation of the special emotional center of our brains (hypothlamus) and the nervous system.

2.) Through our perceiving and moving (sensorimotor) processes.

3.) Through our desiring and thinking (conation and cognition).

Your plan in your post is good and works...for a while. Ellis and Harper argue that using numbers 1 & 2 create only temporary changes, however. To "stick," it requires #3, thinking changes.

I still use #2, as you're advocating, as a supplement to my thinking (my dominate method of emotional control). Part of it happens, I think anyway, because of the rush of oxygen available to the brain when one creates a physical movement designed to influence the emotions.

I have a buddy who, when confronted with a loss, sticks out his chest, hands on hips, stares at the table intently, and this seems to put him into a very competitive mood which translates into making the runnout happen, even if it is very ugly. I've used his technique myself a various times, with various degrees of success.

Tell us more,

Jeff Livingston
 
ChefJeff: I agree that step three is the best solution. However, seems there is always a however, one way to get to this solution is to make it a habit by changing behavior. Eventually the player will find that using their "walk" leads to better playing and this is reinforced to the point that it becomes a habit. Self talk will engrain the habit as an attitude or a cognitive style that is now, miriculously turned into cognitive change. This technique is used as part of psychotherapy and would work for changing one's appraoch to the game as well.

Thanks PKM I will try to post an attachment right now. I have to change my computer's config to upload from documents.
I did PM Mr Wilson to see if I can place these reviews in some sort of archive. Many of the articles are my original reviews of the literature and could be used by players and authors. I no longer have any need or desire to publish books and articles with all that is involved in that process. I did enough of that years ago and now would simply like to contribute these thoughts for others to consider.
 
Here is an article on Competitive Anxiety, what it is, how to identify, and the use of deep muscle relaxation to change the way you play the game.
 

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Here is an article on the use of imagery as a technique for improving your game. I have another on the use of hypnosis but I will need to re-write for posting.
 

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JoeW, for some reason, I had to save both articles in order to open them. Couldn't do it online, for some reason. Just thought I'd let you know. By the way, I'll peruse them later. Going for lunch.
 
JoeW said:
This is a new technique that I tried last night. It is based on my years of experience as a professional psychologist and scientist. The finding is strong enough that I think that it needs its own thred with some of my other articles. First, the trick and then why it works ? and it does work.

You have a way of walking when you are in a really good mood. Maybe it?s that John Travolta walk from ?Saturday Night Fever.? Whatever it is, there is a bounce to your step, a musical rhythm to your walk that simply feels good. Perhaps you need an I-pod plugged into your ear to get in the mood. Whatever your style is, when you get up to shoot, walk to the table with that walk and that rhythm -- I?m in a great mood walk. It will put you in the right frame of mind and then use your usual techniques for staying in that mood while you walk around the table and shoot.

Here is why it works. Many years ago Bib Latanne from Ohio State University among others were trying to determine if your emotions effect your behavior or if your behavior effects your emotions. The scientists gave something like adrenaline to a group of subjects who thought it was orange juice to see its effect on intellectual performance (yeah we are known for sneaky studies like this).

Anyway the pumped up subject is in a waiting room prior to the intellectual performance test. A confederate of the experimenter comes in and sits down next to the subject. In one situation the confederate is angry and makes ugly statements about the experiment, the subject too gets angry as one way of explaining their pumped up system.

In another situation the confederate starts joking around, laughing and throwing paper airplanes at the waste basket. The subject too easily starts laughing and joking around as the explanation for the adrenaline.

There were other conditions to control for possible problems in the study. This study is often cited as one of the better studies in the social sciences and has been replicated many times.

The conclusion is that our emotions follow our behavior. If we act upbeat, our emotions will shift to upbeat. If we act angry, our emotions will become angry. In general, you can change your emotions by changing your behavior.

If you act upbeat, you will get into an upbeat mood and that will improve your game. Now you can see misses for what they are ? a part of the game.

So, I suggest that you give it a serious try, say 15 ? 30 minutes of your upbeat walk and personal tempo to get in the right mood for playing pool. From what we know in the experimental sciences it will improve your game.

Pay it forward and it will make everyone?s life / and game better.

There is another aspect of this technique. If you fake it until you make it, no one can get you down because your behavior will constantly bring you back to a better state of mind. You enjoy the game for yourself and the other person?s behavior does not affect you.

I have been debating with myself about posting some of my other articles about psychology and pool. With the indulgence of the moderators I will place four or five additional posts that are not copyrighted. Some of these articles were written several years ago and are based on a review of the scientific psychological literature as it applies to playing pool.

They are not copyrighted and can be used by anyone for any purpose though it would be polite to cite the source (Joe Waldron, Ph.D., Psychologist, Youngstown State University) if these ideas are used in other texts.

I am not a professional pool player, but I am a professional psychologist (retired) and these ideas may be of use from that perspective. AZB seems the best place to put this information that others can consider an use as needed.

Way to go Joe!

I like your idea and look forward to the rest. I have to admit that I have often been confronted will an un-happy beast within myself, only because of my distaste for poor performance. I will use your technique for a while and let you know how it works for me.
Thanks for the suggestion.

Maybe I just need you in my corner. To heck with Jeanette. :rolleyes:
JoeyA
 
Pushout you probably need the MS Word reader plugin to view online. If you don't have it then you have to save and read off line. I am not sure how to get the reader but it probably isn't too difficult.

Thanks JoeyA. Techniques guaranteed to work or you get back all of the money you paid. I'll take Jeanette, she's much better looking.:D
 
Joe,

I read the first "article", and saved the other two for later. I also just finished "The Pleasures Of Small Motions", which was the first book on the mental game specifically as it applies to pool that I've ever seen. If you notice in the forum index, another poster says he "needs help with the mental game" or words to that effect. I appreciate the articles, and strongly feel that there is a lot of room for more of this in pool, especially from players with your professional qualifications. Keep it up please. Thanks...Tom
 
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Thanks Tom. Glad to help where I can.

Here is another article that presents what the science of psychology has to say about practice.
 

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Thanks BillYards, love the avatar, she is a looker.

Right now I am in the middle of cabinet making but I will re-write the hypnois article later tonight and post. It can be extremely useful for those who want to improve their game.:eek:
 
JoeW said:
Here is an article on Competitive Anxiety, what it is, how to identify, and the use of deep muscle relaxation to change the way you play the game.

Joe, you have made it to the top of my list of AZ I WOULD MOST LIKE TO MEET. :)

I am once more jazzed and ready to commit to achieving another higher level of play and will utilize your techniques to achieve that.

Your article on deep muscle relaxation is not completely new to me as I had a sports psychologist help teach me this but you actually go into BETTER detail and I now realize why I was not as successful with the technique as I could have been.

I can't wait to read the next one. The fact that you play pool helps a great deal. Thanks for sharing this information. I believe it may be the most valuable information for me at this time.

Thanks,
JoeyA
 
JoeW said:
Pushout you probably need the MS Word reader plugin to view online. If you don't have it then you have to save and read off line. I am not sure how to get the reader but it probably isn't too difficult.

Nope, not the problem. I've viewed other Word files online with no problem. Not too concerned, may be my wife's computer. Mine died the horrible death of mother board failure a few weeks back, as if I didn't have enough to worry about, already.
 
JoeW said:
Thanks Tom. Glad to help where I can.

Here is another article that presents what the science of psychology has to say about practice.

I've spent my lunch time reading all of the articles and find everything a good read. Hopefully I will make time to acquire the skills to do all of the things you have outlined.
Thanks again.
JoeyA
 
Great post. I completely agree with what you're saying and I've seen it in my own life and the lives of others. Anthony Robbins says it: "The motion can create the emotion."

Here's a post I made from a similar thread a few months ago that's worth sharing again:

http://forums.azbilliards.com/showpost.php?p=711991&postcount=17

Sixpack said:
"You will only achieve to the level you see yourself at, NEVER higher."

"You already are living the life you want." => "You already play at the level you want."

Both of these quotes are from a very successful real estate coach, Mike Ferry. They guy is 60 and plays to a scratch handicap in golf. Not to mention he's worth about $200 Million. He's studied success his whole life.

Your post reveals that you have fallen into a comfort zone of mediocrity when it comes to your pool game. Simply put, you have bad nights because you expect to. It's a pattern that's programmed into your mind and if you want to change it, you have to break the programming.

Picture yourself playing great. Imagine your posture, the clarity of your vision when you're on the ball, the vision you have of the path of the CB to the position point. The feeling you have before you pull the trigger. Get that person in your mind. Close your eyes for a minute and picture you there, playing great. Are you smiling? Are you animated? How do you study the table? When it's your turn, do you get out of your chair slowly or quickly? Do you jump up and race to the table because you can't wait for the opportunity to win?

Now, picture yourself playing poorly. Is your posture different? Are your thoughts muddled? Do you look at the table the same way? When it's your turn at the table, do you get out of your chair slowly or quickly? Do you move slowly to the table dreading the possibility that you might miss? Close your eyes and picture yourself.

Now, the mind is programmed by a lot of different things, but two are very important: 1) What your self-talk is. and 2) What you are doing physically.

If you tell yourself "here we go again" resignedly when you miss a shot, you're going to go into a death spiral until all of your worst fear fantasies come true. You'll be disgusted, upset, angry, tired and go home feeling woeful, but you'll also be comfortable because that's what your used to. Your brain is programmed to respond to what you tell it. When you tell it "here we go again" it says okay, run "death spiral" program and it continues.

So how to break it:
First, you've been talking to yourself for years, probably a lot of negative thoughts related to pool (and maybe other things). In fact, probably a lot of it is so bad that if someone else were to talk to you like that, you'd punch them in the mouth. Don't take it from yourself either! So be patient with what I'm going to tell you. If you find yourself going down that path, do the following:

1) Motion can create the emotion - Remember the things you do when you're playing well. The posture, the motions, the expressions and the mannerisms around the table. These are all 'triggers' to top performance. When you start to play bad, do those things. In fact, practice them in front of a mirror if you need to. Keep a 3X5 card in your back pocket and refer to it. Jump out of your chair when your opponent misses if that's what you do. Smile. Jump. Scream. Whatever you do when you're winning. That will derail the "death spiral" programming and put you into "pool domination" program.

2) Control your thoughts - Ask better question. When you ask your brain a question, your brain supplies an answer, that is its job. So ask yourself questions that have useful, productive answers. When you miss, you might be inclined to say "why does this always happen to me?" Your brain, being a good little brain, finds an answer: "Because I suck at pool" and then it goes along making that answer consistent with reality.

Instead of asking a loser question, ask yourself a productive question like "How can I run out from here?" or "How can I make this shot?" or "How can I turn this around?"...you get the picture. Your brain, being a good little brain, will supply the answer for those questions as well and then work to make those answers reality.

As I mentioned, this takes time and considerable discipline on your part, so be vigilant. Start monitoring your self-talk and whenever you catch a loser question, immediately label it as a loser question and demand of yourself that you rephrase it. Then ask the better question of yourself OUT LOUD. When you hear something as well as think it, it's much more powerful.

Try this about everything (not just pool) the next few days and let us know how it turns out.

The above method has transformed my life over the last few years and has taken a bunch of strokes off my golf game and given me much more consistency at pool. It takes constant vigilance though, old habits can be hard to break.

Good luck with everything.

RC

Edited to fix a few typos
 
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