I've been the same type player, and love to run with It when I can, so understand your delima. I Have been working on slowing it down for years, The way I deal with it now when I'm in that state of mind to make good decisions is not much different then some pros, altough not quite at that level. When I'm in stroke, the best way for me to deal with it, and not take away My strong suite is to stop, and look at the setup when I need to, sometimes I can see the whole run after the break, and go all the way through without any stops, other times I may get in a situation that could stop the run for me If I don't replan My attack, and rush the shot instead. I guess I run in splirts in those situations planing out on average 4-5 balls ahead.
You can also try to slow your rythem down, but get the same feel of going from shot to shot in smooth transition. I try to pace it sometimes so that I'm looking at the shot good as I walk around to it, and sight It in from several angles at the same time. go down on the shot at the same pace, and stay down on the follow at the same pace flowing from one shot to the other. Almost how a musician times a beat inside their head, but slowing It down. It's not always the way to go, but sometimes everything just flows together nice and easy.
It's all about sighting stroke in for me, so the flow helps My game quite a bit. When I practice by Myself, usually what I'm doing Is trying to find My stroke more then anything, so I can slow it down, more then working on My shot making ability. I might even hit them hard in practice, but I'm training My brain to the cloth. If I see My line with a hard stroke, then the slower ajustments come easier to me. To someone that did'nt know better would think I am a banger. The reason I do that is to get it out before I slow things down In real play, and still be able to open up on the key shots instead of picking up a hesitation from being out of rythem. When I start out though, I do start out slow and slowly increase speed, before moving into the power strokes.
I love playing a fast paced game, but for me it was live by the sword, die by It, so I started working on slowing It down some time ago. It's not really My best suited style, but more consistent overall,. Sometimes I was so hot I could flow, and make anything work to keep the run alive, a virtual sleeper, because even I did'nt know when I was going to come on for sure, so there was no way anyone else could tell, but other times I could'nt hit the broad side of a barn LOL, so I had to make a change. Sometimes I still get caught up in the hesitation on key outs from slow play, and have to snap to, and open My stroke up to gain/regain the edge, and finish.
I guess I would have to go with slowing it down, you have more control, don't rush as many key shots, miss as many key breakouts, and it opens your mind up to other options that you may pass by in fast play. I noticed that sometimes The runs were alot easier then I would normally go about them, and I think that increased My odds of finishing runs. Ofcoarse I picked up an ocasional hesitation, that even I could hardly notice at first.
I still play both ways though, just when I have to buckle down, I try to slow It it down, and increase My odds, but sometimes a good tune, and alittle faster lock & load style play will shake those hesitations should they appear

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I aggree with what Mcguy mentioned too though, so I get caught between the 2. I don't gamble much these days, but was Recently worked into a cheap ring game of 9 with a couple of guys after a league night full of those hesitations. At first I stayed slow and steady, and I knew the guys were working together, and working the rotation on me, but thought I could still keep up with them on My slow, steady, style play. well was'nt long and they were starting to get into My pockets kind of deep, so much for the cheap games

, Finally with My back against the wall, I did something I had'nt done in quite a while, and just opened up. I forgot how good 9B felt when you just let go, and start flowing, I was cracking the 9 on the break, combos, and full runs getting both 5 & 9 when possible.
I guess It is a tricky call, You can chain a dog up and teach him some new tricks, but sometimes You need to let him off, so he can run free and do what comes natural

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