I get a kick out of other players who tell me what *I* was thinking when I made a particular shot...
That I scratched on purpose (when if fact I did not).
That I tried to make a shot and missed (when I intentionally missed).
That I intentionally missed (when I was trying to make the ball and really missed).
[Etc.]
These people are *wrong* about what I was actually thinking, but if I try to correct them, they will insist they are right about "knowing" what I was thinking!
And when I ask them how they know what I was thinking, they say because they know!
I think they call this "projection" which means...
Attributing to another person feelings, thoughts, or attitudes present in oneself.
That I scratched on purpose (when if fact I did not).
That I tried to make a shot and missed (when I intentionally missed).
That I intentionally missed (when I was trying to make the ball and really missed).
[Etc.]
These people are *wrong* about what I was actually thinking, but if I try to correct them, they will insist they are right about "knowing" what I was thinking!
And when I ask them how they know what I was thinking, they say because they know!
I think they call this "projection" which means...
Attributing to another person feelings, thoughts, or attitudes present in oneself.