You're asking questions that nobody can answer - for you. Hit & feel are subjective, and how well a cue plays for you (and vice versa) have so much to do with your own style, shot selection, game of choice, tip position eccentricity, willingness to adapt to a different joint type / shaft taper / balance point / etc, etc...
Try to hit with as many different cues as you can via friends, supply stores, etc. If you're able to chalk up, try some of the type of shots that highlight the "life" in a cue for you, and how much adjustment is required for your desired results - but try & be consistent or you won't learn much.