Why is it so hard to be kind ?

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ikant1975

AzB Silver Member
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Sorry guys ,

but to me it seems everybody here is scared to be cheated . Does it really happens that often ? Especially because i am a german guy it seems to be difficult being kind and doing some business . I never cheated anybody and i won't ... i donated several times for several causes at this forum and i really liked it . Don't wanna be honored because of that , but wanna be accepted as a honest member of this forum .
If this isn't possible and any kindness is worth nothing please let me know !!!

Sad , Markus
 
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A more defined description would help perhaps.
I personally had never a problem with buying here on AZB. Just 2 times, where the guys just wanted to sell in the conus.

Each was handled like on german forum- first sending money-then receiving the *stuff*. Buisness as usual.
 
Hmmmmm !

Your right ! If you wanna buy something and send money it works ...
Trading and selling aswell as help somebody making a deal possible is hell , seems to be impossible cause everybody is scared to be cheated ...
A pity !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Ratta said:
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A more defined description would help perhaps.
I personally had never a problem with buying here on AZB. Just 2 times, where the guys just wanted to sell in the conus.

Each was handled like on german forum- first sending money-then receiving the *stuff*. Buisness as usual.
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^^^^^^Strongly Agree!!
 
Why ?

So why do want to be shipped first on a normal trade , which only is made possible because of someone else kindness and effort aswell as a special input of money ?
Cause you are scared to be cheated , isn't it ?
Thats no problem for me , but it is a really sad mirror for the world we live in , isn't it ?
No bucks to buy , just wanna trade and doesn't appreciate the given possibilities ...
Maybe it would help if i always mention the guys who would vouch for me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No Reputation is bad reputation ? So it is in a forum where 100% feedback is worth nothing ?!
 
Hard to be kind

ikant1975 said:
So why do want to be shipped first on a normal trade , which only is made possible because of someone else kindness and effort aswell as a special input of money ?
Cause you are scared to be cheated , isn't it ?
Thats no problem for me , but it is a really sad mirror for the world we live in , isn't it ?
No bucks to buy , just wanna trade and doesn't appreciate the given possibilities ...
Maybe it would help if i always mention the guys who would vouch for me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No Reputation is bad reputation ? So it is in a forum where 100% feedback is worth nothing ?!
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I would suggest using Fast_N_Loose escrow services for your situation you're not worried about.
????Thats no problem for me
Don't see it>>So it is in a forum where 100% feedback is worth nothing ?
 
Leave now !!!

I am not nice anymore !
Might be my english , but i don't meant my feedback but the few 100% faked feedbacks on this forum .
I am not in need getting someone the opportunity to get a better , more worth cue in a trade than the one he offers . Doing everything to make a deal possible even i don't wanna have the offered cues seems to be my fault (would be really easierer if everybody has some cash or don't wanna deal here) !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok , thats the way it is .
Wanna thank Shane Palmer , Duc Lam , Pistalpat and a few more for some extraordinary experiences !!!
Thanks guys !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good bye , Markus
 
They say you have to be cruel to be kind. At the same time it's apparently possible to kill with kindness.

Rock >.< hard place.
 
When soneone starts telling me how honest they are,


I start counting the silverware!


Stones
 
ikant1975 said:
I am not nice anymore !
Might be my english , but i don't meant my feedback but the few 100% faked feedbacks on this forum .
I am not in need getting someone the opportunity to get a better , more worth cue in a trade than the one he offers . Doing everything to make a deal possible even i don't wanna have the offered cues seems to be my fault (would be really easierer if everybody has some cash or don't wanna deal here) !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok , thats the way it is .
Wanna thank Shane Palmer , Duc Lam , Pistalpat and a few more for some extraordinary experiences !!!
Thanks guys !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good bye , Markus
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I am NOT IN NEED getting someone the opportunity to get a better , more worth cue in a trade than the one he offers?????. BUTTT>Doing everything to make a deal possible????????????

Was this item listed in the FS/FT add, meaning you'd take trades offers or cash offers? IMO Sounds to me like you're really desperate to make a deal, (especially for someone who doesn't NEED to make a deal), and is also willing to take a LESSER valued item, (than what he's offering), which would make me wonder why would they do that? Why would they be so pushy to make the deal,(they DON'T need or is not worried about), that the other person doesn't feel comfortable making. IMO that sounds like a sales person NEEDING to make a deal for some type of gain, (or whatever the case may be). IMO, if a person is not willing to use an ESCROW (or some other means to protect both parties) and has no creditable reputation, i'd be concerned, and afraid to do business with him/her also. IMO that's not a smart way to conduct business, with no recourse, should the deal go bad, or recieve an item not as described, or damaged, or never recieved. Internationally or not, there's to many things that could go wrong, and both parties would be taking a risk, that i personally, would not be willling to take.JMHO.

Eddie
 
Well, i buy sometimes here on AZ,never had a problem with that.of course some guys, as ratta said,only want to ship in conus,what is ok and i have to accept.also my buisnesspartners here always were very kindful to me,a few days ago i bought an lomax Jumper from an AZer,he send an pm a every step on he trade,hink is IS kindful...
Also the stuff i sold here,never got an problem,the guys everytime were respectful and kindly to me, Even if my english is bad :-)
All the best from germany,Maik
 
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