Your information is good, but per Conetip, I left out the important proviso that the same torque is being applied in the situation at hand (tightening cues by hand).
Tension is pretty directly related to clamp load.
As Conetip mentions, the compression of the faces causes clamp load. What he skimmed over is that the compression forces are also translated into sliding friction, thus for a lower friction interface, the torque applied will result in higher clamp loads (and more compression of the surfaces).
I think you have a fine understanding of properly installing bolts and controlling torque. The fact that we are dealing with cues and tool-less tightening kind of switches things backwards. You likely deal with installing fasteners that are engineered to supply the correct clamp load (i.e. flanged plumbing, iron beams). These fasteners are chosen such that the clamp load and the friction between the joined members resists the slipping of the two members and no shear force is applied to the fastener (most fasteners are very poor at resisting shear loads). In the cuestick world, we start with a torque (the amount that a person can be reliably expected to apply with his hands) and end up with a screw selected by being the largest that will work.
Maybe we should move this to the NPR Forum You are correct that I deal in engineered products and torque between a few in/oz to 58K ft/lbs in Assembly plants and heavy industry.
Just a couple of comments. We sometimes confuse/reverse things when talking about this stuff. I'm guilty too for sure.
I might suggest that tension and or clamp load causes compression in the thread. Can't have compression without tension.
I don't have ready proof of this but I'm thinking that even with the same applied torque you will get a higher clamp load with a fine pitch than course. I say this simply because of the difference in the inclined plane. Its much easier to walk up my driveway (fine pitch) than it is a mountain (course pitch). If my theory is has any validity we can climb higher with less effort in the shallower incline of the fine pitch which would create higher clamp. Maybe hogwash.
Conetip States: With cues, the wood is the weakest part of the equation and the joint face materials effects the torque when assembling a cue.
I would suggest here that the joint face materials effect the clamp load not torque. Torque its assumed remains the same in this discussion. I contend that friction overcomes applied torque. If I were stronger or tightened the cue with pipe wrenches I could achieve higher clamp till the joint failed. I doubt there's any measurable stretch in a cue pin. Extremely little.
Take a look at Layani's joint. His first cues did not have a screw at all. Problem was they were hard to get apart so he added a jack screw. The short screw also aids in fully seating the joint.