Quite a bit of ranting about having or not having fun - booze - screwing around !!! If that's your goal fo get about pool. In my zillion matches over many years - never once did I pay attention to my opponent beyond glancing and not actually caring about their performances. Of course I occasionally lost - to many variables no one can control or anticipate. Unless you or they are into sharking - does any apponents skill or accomplishments mean anything at all. When it's your turn - don't miss or screw up - you can do nothing about their performance - forget them !!! It's a long road. A 4 can run the table and a 7 should run it much more often NOT to be happening precisely on any schedule. When you get beat so what ? If it crushes you at all - get out of the game - or any game. If your decent and getting better - start playing some of the gang races to 7 - 8 - 9 etc. The reality show will begin. You have no control over their performance !!!!!!!!!!!! Another question to ask yourself: Do you know the tables cushions, speed, rolls, pocket characteristics, HUH - a 4 who live's on the table has a definite advantage over the stranger who isn't really that fast and good table reader !!!!
Have fun HUH ??????
As with anything, you have to realize what you're are looking to accomplish in anything that you set out to do. This is no different.
This whole thread with Rich has been primarily about league pool, and APA league pool in particular. Which as most here will tell you, isn't serious pool, in and of itself. Can we take it seriously, yes. Are there seriously good players that play APA, yes? But the format is league, a good time out playing pool.
The large majority of people playing APA are doing just that, going out to have a good time and to play some pool in a somewhat competitive setting. That's all it needs to be, for most. If a particular person wishes to take it more seriously, they certainly can, and should.
But if you can only play 10 hours a week like Rich (or many people playing APA) that means you can't get terribly serious about expecting to become a high level player. It also means that you probably have a lot going on in your life that means pool isn't necessarily your highest priority, no matter how much you like it and no matter how seriously you take it. (I am in this group as well.) If you have that much going on in your life, you damned sure better be having a good time when you get a chance to play pool, or its gonna be miserable. Especially if everyone else playing around you is having a good time.
I play better when people are enjoying themselves. Its been proven. We had a miserable bunch of players, and it felt like work going to league every week. If you've worked 8-10 hours that day, tried to meet some family obligations and then hurry to the pool hall only to be in a miserable environment, how are you supposed to play your best?
Anyone can take this as seriously as they want to, and I do. But I still intend to "have fun" in what little free time I have, no matter how seriously I intend to take my pool game. (And I do intend to be as serious as is possible about it.) When I'm playing my match, its not all giggles and ha-ha's. But I don't have to brood and sulk, either.
Try it. Have some fun. Life is too short.