Nobody accused you of anything other than poor communication before this reply of yours so why be so negative?
The thing that is a bit unsettling is that you had 2 people who looked to have agreed to buy your cue. One of those actually paid you while the other was promising payment as soon as funds cleared. That kind of thing does not routinely happen here so yes...alert level was raised to yellow.
There have been some people getting ripped off here recently so maybe we are all extra cautious.
Just a suggestion so do with it what you will......contact pookster via pm, let him know when or if the cue has shipped, give him shipping/tracking info and his worries vanish.
If you have not shipped yet, then just be clear as to when you plan on shipping.
If you have not shipped and he says to please just refund him his money....do it. You already have a back up buyer so you are out nothing but a little time and you, pookster and your back up buyer are all happy or at the very least back to good.
Again....right now, nobody here thinks you are ripping anyone off so why not bring assurance to the community that you are a stand up seller?