For me, it's tournaments. Knowing that you could be out all that time with one bad shot adds pressure that gambling just doesn't. I've been a poker player for a long time, and do not have the same attachment to money that a lot of people do.
I would use something like this. Not sure exactly how setup works on the remote table, but I'm interested.
I have a buddy 2000+ miles away that I love shooting with when we are together. We have tried setting up Teams meetings to mimmick layouts to shoot 'against' one another. It's clunky...