dawgandy touches on something i was going to say, just stop beating yourself up and relax a bit more. you can still be passionate and dedicated without mentally torturing yourself. about six months ago i decided to change my mindset and outlook on the game. be positive, relax, dont get angry whaling cues around the room when you miss, etc etc. i'm not saying you do these particular things, but my point is that once you change your mindset on the game, change your outlook to it all, it'll benefit your game loads.
judging from the posts you keep making, you're obviously a decent player and have the ability, so it's the mental aspect that's holding you back.
relax a bit more, perhaps calm down a bit, tell yourself you arent gonna beat yourself up over a miss, dont blame other things for a loss (something i used to do). and try to stay positive. a negative thought is worse on a shot than a bad stroke! perhaps not strictly true but it's my quick attempt at a proverb and you get the point!
you obviously have your physical fundamentals pretty well honed, work on your mental ones a bit!
judging from the posts you keep making, you're obviously a decent player and have the ability, so it's the mental aspect that's holding you back.
relax a bit more, perhaps calm down a bit, tell yourself you arent gonna beat yourself up over a miss, dont blame other things for a loss (something i used to do). and try to stay positive. a negative thought is worse on a shot than a bad stroke! perhaps not strictly true but it's my quick attempt at a proverb and you get the point!
you obviously have your physical fundamentals pretty well honed, work on your mental ones a bit!