You probably would have not written this if they would have said.
Sir as you can see it is a league night and very busy. The best I can do to accomadate you is as soon as a table opens up it is yours. We will need the table back in an hour or so. For any inconvenience I won't charge you the table time and "PLEASE" have a soda or a beer on us.
It might cost them 30 cents for the lights and 30 cents for a soda to keep a customer happy,coming back and spending money in their establishment. Instead here you are telling the world how bad a taste it left in your mouth and you are willing to travel and spend your money. Poor Business
My last experience in Amsterdam was this. Two years ago myself and three friends get there a little late on a league night. I went there to meet with someone about a possible business venture.( A well respected regular )
After all is done we are sitting near the dart board, they are drinking alcohol, I am having water. After two or three rounds and generous tips for the waitress two of my friends want to play. Both of these guys are gentlemen and very strong players, money burns a hole in their pocket faster than a fire.
They end up playing on one of the front tables that are roped off, there are 3 tables and the other two are not in use.The game was a race to 10, loser pays for a late night dinner for all of us. A few locals were on the stools watching and others were standing around watching. Both guys were playing very well. This is where it gets good.
After about 30 ? 40 minutes some guy walks over to them and says ( I have to ask you to get off the table, these tables are for players only ) I heard word for word I was sitting right there. I thought I was hearing things. My friend says I hope you are kidding me.
With that my friend who is now totally insulted pulls out a nice knot ,throws it on the table and says ( loudly and pissed ) I will play any #$%^&*( in here right now. Yes he lost control and I think most would have reacted in some unfavorable fashion.
The kicker is they charged them table time.
This was the same night they asked this kid Jason who was drunk to leave and another gentlemen had some type of a seizure,passed out,hit his head on the desk as you walk in.
One of my students (15 yrs old ) won the straight pool league. He refuses to play there again. Nothing to do with the league ( He likes Danny very much ) but he was also disrespected by the establishment. He is a very good player, a top junior, straight A student , money is not a problem with his family. They now lost potential income and possible future representation. He is also sponsored by a well known cue maker.
Diplomacy goes a long way in this world, especially in business.
It's possible that all parties involved on these occasions just had a bad night and could have handled things differently. It doesn't hurt to give the benefit of the doubt. It's not always best to hold a grudge.
Otherwise when in Rome do what the Romans do, Spend your money elsewhere, preferably where a "Real Houseman" is present.