the lighter fluid trick works well, besides the smell (which is not strong by any means) but if you leave it out of the case for a day or so it will dissipate. It works well for stripping off all the old skin oils, chalk, and wax if any was used on the shaft. Its petroleum distillate so its got working action built in to dissolve the gunk. Re-wipe it with a clean paper towel with a dab of fluid on it and then use a fresh paper towel to get the excess off and burnish with a dollar bill, or some leather.
If you take care of your cue properly then NO SANDING is ever needed. I clean the shafts real quick after I'm done playing with just a damp paper towel and then buff hot...if its humid I may do it multiple times through the night. And I wash my hands ever so often.
I may use the lighter fluid once every few months and really don't need it, since i never let anything build up on it during play. I havent polished my shaft in about 4months and its still as slick as the day I conditioned it.
easy and simple,
Grey Ghost