Eric. said:
Jeff,
You missed the point. How is a newbie supposed to know the difference between good advice and bad advice? It wasn't until I was able to figure out whether the advice was good or bad that the damage was done.
The point isn't to control the world of bad Pool advice, moreso, a sharing of my bad experiece with a wannabe Pool know-it-all. You can consider my post a "learn from my mistake" post, so if it helps someone to not fall into the same trap, then my post was worth while. BTW, there is alot of "not-so-good" advice on Pool forums so consider the sources.
Eric
Point taken. May we all learn from your experience and be happier for it. I, too quickly, jumped on you (sorry) because I'm seeing, more and more, laws being passed and force-backed strategies being taken by the control freaks that are supposed to save us from ______(fill in current public scare tactic), while taking away every individual's power to control and manage his/her life effectively against the harm that the universe throws at us, and always will. Your post had me thinking about those things.
As to your question about how a pool newbie is to know...I realize our public propaganda prisons (aka public schools) rarely care to teach how to actually think anymore, but thinking honestly is the only way for anyone to know what advice to heed/avoid. Honesty can be intergrated into a PROCESS of learning so the process itself weeds out inconsistencies, contradictions, dangers, etc. automatically. In pool, I use my personal recipe for this. But it doesn't matter if the subject is pool, politics, or whatever, the process of integrated honesty works to dismiss negative and erroneous thinking/acting.
For fuller discussion on integrated honesty, go here:
www.neo-tech.com
From my experience and from what history tells me, most people default on honest integrations as it requires changing firmly held beliefs, leaving behind "friends," making major life changes, dumping mysticisms, constantly determining which advice is good-for-me and which isn't, etc. And integrated honesty requires focused efforts to fully think through concepts, and it requires putting aside immediate, personal pleasures and replacing them with thoughts and actions integrated with one's long-term happiness. When I get lazy about this, the universe spanks me.
Watching bangers (or being one, for that matter) requires being honest, IF one is to get something out of the experience that adds to his/her happiness.
Sermon is over; pass the plate
Jeff Livingston