I've always liked the look of the cross over bridge but I like to put my palm/side of my hand on the table, and if I do that, my tip is like 2 tips down from center ball, heh. I agree with predator in that the cross over looks much better, shame I have such small fingers.
Also, I'm not sure if I have some super weird bridge because I've yet to see anyone with the same, but i have the typical forefinger to thumb bridge but I have to lift my middle finger off the table to compensate for height. Personally I think it looks mad noob but I'm comfy with it. Has anyone seen this?