If you used your Amex for payment with Paypal just dispute the charge and tell Amex merchandise never sent. You will be credited immediately..if you sent $ through your bank, file a paypal claim..takes a while. Usually takes 2-3 weeks to settle, happened to a friend of mine buying golf clubs on Ebay, but Paypal made it right.
Well, like I said in an earlier post, it appears that the cue was shipped, and I should be able to pick it up tomorrow from the fedex hub. They tried to deliver it today while I was at work, so I called em and told em to hold it there and I would go pick it up.
Joe