For some reason I'm having a difficult time quoting, but this is in response to
@SJpilot
No, I wasn't picking a fight with him at all - quite the opposite. I knew he was angry, but I thought he was just mad at himself for playing so poorly.
I've walked away from a table a little upset before, and the other player came over and smoothed things over - it's common, and I actually appreciate it. I've seen calmer players try to do this many times with angry losers over the 20 years I've played in APA. Maybe it's not normal in all regions of the U.S.?
In any case, I'm sure there are many players who don't even try to shake hands if someone walks away upset. In my experience players who are clearly angry when they lose appreciate a handshake and honest conciliatory remarks. It's just a game and we're supposed to be having fun - a reminder of this in a friendly way is usually appreciated.
I'll leave this thread now - I thought it was humorous and really didn't think I would get judged like this. But ... I haven't posted much on AZ lately and had forgotten how things usually go.