There are people out there that are negative about life. They spend all their time judging and critisizng everyone and everything. They drain all your positive energy. I do my best to avoid them. You find them at work, in the grocery store, next door, everywhere. We call them people eaters. I have one at work that can't say anything positive about anything. He is just a miserable jerk. I just don't respond unless he says something about one of my staff. I think this is the only way he got any attention as a child in a large family, this is how he learned to communicate and feel good about himself. I would like to do more than kick him in the " Family Jewels " but whats the point. How about telling him to shut up until he learns how to play himself.
Or, just tell him you love him and hope he can find some happiness in his miserable life.
Don P.