I play with a newer Joss cue but I'm not a fan of the linen insert on the shaft. I feel it gives a dampening affect. I prefer having a very stiff hit. I am interested in buying a Paul Dayton cue with an old growth shaft.
Funny....I just bought a Joss off a guy who said it was too stiff.
Dampening would be vibration or resonance, different matter from stiffness. So am not sure what you are getting at.
I have a Dayton. Great cue. Nice shaft wood. I think it's kind of numb next to my Joss cues. And it is a 5/15x14 piloted steel collar joint.
If it's the shaft and/or insert you have an issue with, I assume you are looking for a shaft.
Joss makes several lines of shafts.
In addition, the joint was the first one standardized in the industry, you can also go aftermarket or another custom maker if you like.
You mention Dayton. Somebody was selling a Dayton lakewood shaft here in the forum not long ago, might still be available. Dayton is a "wood guy", well known to make some nice shafts and have some great shaft wood. Sadly we hear he is ill, but he might have a shaft or two or be able to finish one.
It's difficult to believe that one can tell the difference between inserts...but at the same time, once it's in your head that you can, it's hard to get it out.
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