“C” means average. It is what most people do. Statistically it encompasses about 68% of the people. So it is what should be expected .
But I think there is more to it than that. I think that we are wrong to expect our kids or ourselves to get “A”s in every subject. What if we gave each of us grades for the various skill areas in life. What would your report card look like:
Life Skills Report Card
Interpersonal relations ability
Ability to play pool.
Free from addictions.
Works to potential on the job.
Gets along with co-workers.
Friendly and helpful with neighbors.
Ability as a father (mother)
Gets along with family members.
Understands current scientific issues
Understand current political issues.
Participates in political activities.
And the list goes on. Most of us would get an overall “C” in life by the time we figured out what is important and our involvement in it. I would bet that most people are not “A” players in golf, tennis, footall, basket ball, or in any sport for that matter. You may have been at one time but interest and abilities change over time.
It is more important to follow the currents of our lives than to grade ourselves and those we care about.
By definition we are all “C” players by the time you figure it out. Sure we may be an "A" player in some small area of life and that area will change from time to time.
But I think there is more to it than that. I think that we are wrong to expect our kids or ourselves to get “A”s in every subject. What if we gave each of us grades for the various skill areas in life. What would your report card look like:
Life Skills Report Card
Interpersonal relations ability
Ability to play pool.
Free from addictions.
Works to potential on the job.
Gets along with co-workers.
Friendly and helpful with neighbors.
Ability as a father (mother)
Gets along with family members.
Understands current scientific issues
Understand current political issues.
Participates in political activities.
And the list goes on. Most of us would get an overall “C” in life by the time we figured out what is important and our involvement in it. I would bet that most people are not “A” players in golf, tennis, footall, basket ball, or in any sport for that matter. You may have been at one time but interest and abilities change over time.
It is more important to follow the currents of our lives than to grade ourselves and those we care about.
By definition we are all “C” players by the time you figure it out. Sure we may be an "A" player in some small area of life and that area will change from time to time.
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