Sometimes I think I don't want to win

[Gio Sr.]

Lou, I think you are doing amazingly well. You're only playing a couple of years! Cut yourself some slack. From what you're saying, you're definitely ahead of the curve. Just keep at it. You will win one, and probably soon.

Thanks Fran

 

[(((Satori)))]

This may sound crazy but there is such a thing as fear of success. Since you chose to word the thread of the title the way you did, it might be worth looking into.

If a fear of success is holding you back none of the suggestions mentioned will help you until you deal with it first.

 

[Gio Sr.]

I think if you want to get better, you will. I was glad to see you play an musical instrument. I did also. It makes it easier for me to discipline myself now to practice alone on what I want to work on. When I was well prepared I always played my music well. I played in state competitions. I also keep a notebook where I write down what works for me, and what doesn't. The AZ forum has also been a big help. They always seem to be discussing things that I am having problems with. Distractions and focus have been 2 that I could relate to lately.

Thanks, Playing the mandolin required lots of practice. Medical issues forced me to give it up.

This may sound crazy but there is such a thing as fear of success. Since you chose to word the thread of the title the way you did, it might be worth looking into.

If a fear of success is holding you back none of the suggestions mentioned will help you until you deal with it first.

It's worth looking into. Thanks.

 

[Gio Sr.]

I just got invited to join an APA team .They are pretty good too, they just missed a free trip to Vegas by one game. Some of them are in the weekly tournaments I spoke about , They need to fill a slot. A little step up for me.