Is it for fun and relaxation?
Is it because you want (or need) to win?
Do you only have fun while you are winning, or are you able to have a good time with your friends/teammates regardless of the outcome of the matches?
I am in a BCA league with a few friends... It's bar box 8-ball, only 7 teams in the league. I joined so I could spend one night a week having some fun with a good group of friends. We are a fairly strong team that has a pretty good chance to win the league, but that doesn't mean all that much to me. Splitting $1500 between 5-6 people for a league win doesn't exactly get my "juices flowing," if you know what I mean. Over the course of 12 weeks, and after paying $10/week, it kind of turns into pocket change in the grand scheme of things.
I digress...
The reason that I bring up the question is because a couple of my teammates are really competitive (one more so than the other) and they place their main focus on winning. When this was brought up in conversation, I was told that "winning is fun" so when we win, they do have fun. I said something along the lines of "Anyone can have fun when they win, but your true character shows when you loose." I was then met with a very clever response of, "No it doesn't."
The thing is... these guys are pool players. For me, pool is what I do when I am not on the golf course, so it's not my primary competitive outlet. Maybe that is why we feel differently about this. However, if I loose on the golf course, I'm still able to have a good time, so maybe we just aren't on the same page when it comes to this.
I would love to get the forum's take on this and see why you all play in the pool leagues that you are a part of. Is winning really that important to you, or is it an added bonus to the good time you are already having?
Looking forward to your thoughts...
Is it because you want (or need) to win?
Do you only have fun while you are winning, or are you able to have a good time with your friends/teammates regardless of the outcome of the matches?
I am in a BCA league with a few friends... It's bar box 8-ball, only 7 teams in the league. I joined so I could spend one night a week having some fun with a good group of friends. We are a fairly strong team that has a pretty good chance to win the league, but that doesn't mean all that much to me. Splitting $1500 between 5-6 people for a league win doesn't exactly get my "juices flowing," if you know what I mean. Over the course of 12 weeks, and after paying $10/week, it kind of turns into pocket change in the grand scheme of things.
I digress...
The reason that I bring up the question is because a couple of my teammates are really competitive (one more so than the other) and they place their main focus on winning. When this was brought up in conversation, I was told that "winning is fun" so when we win, they do have fun. I said something along the lines of "Anyone can have fun when they win, but your true character shows when you loose." I was then met with a very clever response of, "No it doesn't."
The thing is... these guys are pool players. For me, pool is what I do when I am not on the golf course, so it's not my primary competitive outlet. Maybe that is why we feel differently about this. However, if I loose on the golf course, I'm still able to have a good time, so maybe we just aren't on the same page when it comes to this.
I would love to get the forum's take on this and see why you all play in the pool leagues that you are a part of. Is winning really that important to you, or is it an added bonus to the good time you are already having?
Looking forward to your thoughts...