There have been only a few irish linen wrapped cues that I liked as far as feel goes. One was on a friend's Meucci; the wrap was not sprayed over, it was raw and was plenty rough, and allowed for the definite sensation that you were in control with that surface. No real danger of the cue unexpectedly slipping out of your hand.
My favorite is a stack leather wrapped cue. I have three of them. I use Moneysworth-best ProShine with Lanolin on them.
http://moneysworth-best.com/ProShine.html
I buy this stuff (made in Canada) at a local shoe repair shop.
Spray it on and let it dry. Repeat until you get the level of gloss or satin finish that you like. (It does not become hard, but remains very slightly flexible.)
After that, I'll take a shoe shine brush that has a hint of regular shoe polish on the bristles and buff the wrap with it, and then use a shoe shine cloth to shine it up really well.
That touch of regular shoe shine wax on the wrap will add a very slight tackiness to it, which at least for me, is the perfect amount. If I want the cue to slip a bit, it will, but only if I intentionally allow it to happen. This finish is not sticky at all, but will adhere to your hand without difficulty.
Flex