So a new and interesting development has taken place I was banned from the open billiards market on Facebook ( I’ve never been banned from any forum)
The story : a random hobbyist cue maker appears to have been involved in a shady deal ( most likely the cue maker is the one at fault from my understanding of the situation )
One of the administrators of the open billiards market has launched his own investigation into the deal . (The deal was not affiliated with the open billiards market and transpired 2 years ago if that matters ) the OBM administrator doubts the veracity of some screen shots between the cue maker, the customer and him self
His solution to this problem is that the cue maker should allow him ( Facebook forum administrator)to remotely connect to his computer so that he can get to the bottom of this.
This is where i get involved in the thread and express that requesting that Chuck Bates give any sort of access to his computer is a significant overstep of his authority.
Myself and the administrator has a fairly civil debate about this and a little bit later a couple other people express a similar opinion as mine, at that point the administrator removes all of my comments from the thread and shortly after that bans me from the group
After some more back and forth messaging with him myself and the owner of the group I’m told that if I want allowed back in the groups I need to apologized buy texting him some non sense about “playing Stupid games win stupid prizes”
So my take on this is that his response to being questioned about overstepped his authority is to again overstep his authority ( ban me) and then insist on a special apology if I want back in.
I didn’t break any rules
His behavior in our private messages is almost child like
John Bartons response is to apologize to me for his administrators behavior but say that he cant fix this because he can’t afford the lose this guy as an administrator
Andrew you know that this isn't the whole story.
He didn't overstep his authority. You, however, interfered without cause and caused the discussion to take off in a different direction while at the same failing to grasp what was actually being asked of Chuck Bates.
I did screw up and authorize your ban before reading the whole convo. But even if I hadn't been involved at all the mod has the authority to ban someone for breaking the rules, one of which is "be cool" which you were not. Your premise was wrong, you falsely accused the moderator of requesting something of Chuck that he was not AND you insinuated that the moderator would do something untoward if granted access. Your place wasn't to interject yourself and cause a problem while the moderator was trying to broker the situation and come to a resolution.
And continuing this here is still not cool. You were in the wrong and should have just swallowed your pride and acquiesced to the moderator's request and moved on.
And yes, if faced with a choice between you and my TRUSTED moderator who puts in hours a day dealing with the issues that a 35k membership group presents, a moderator who IS fair and even-handed, generous and conversational rather than dictatorial, the choice is clear. But you were offered a simple way to get back in which would have been over in seconds. Instead you decided to decline and made your choice.
So, I haven't read the rest of the thread and I am sure you are getting validation but it's validation without telling the whole story. I have never known you to be dishonest but your representation here is not accurate and not simply just a matter of perspective.