A friend and I were talking last night about phobias, and we both agreed that we're afraid of people, but on opposite sides of the fence.
I hate dealing with individuals, but groups don't bother me. I'd much rather give a (well-prepared) presentation to a large audience than I would make impromptu conversation with someone one-on-one.
She, on the other hand, feels the reverse. One-on-one is fine for her, but she hates groups of people.
Because of the alcohol involved we didn't delve too deep into the "why".
And this led us to playing pool in front of an audience. It doesn't bother me if people watch while I'm playing/gambling/whatever. In fact, I kinda like it.
She hates it. Doubly so because she's a chick and is concerned about people looking down her shirt and/or staring at her ass. (I tried to tell her that people are checking her out whether she's playing pool or not, but that didn't help).
Anyways, what about the rest of the world? Do you mind an audience when playing pool?
I hate dealing with individuals, but groups don't bother me. I'd much rather give a (well-prepared) presentation to a large audience than I would make impromptu conversation with someone one-on-one.
She, on the other hand, feels the reverse. One-on-one is fine for her, but she hates groups of people.
Because of the alcohol involved we didn't delve too deep into the "why".
And this led us to playing pool in front of an audience. It doesn't bother me if people watch while I'm playing/gambling/whatever. In fact, I kinda like it.
She hates it. Doubly so because she's a chick and is concerned about people looking down her shirt and/or staring at her ass. (I tried to tell her that people are checking her out whether she's playing pool or not, but that didn't help).
Anyways, what about the rest of the world? Do you mind an audience when playing pool?