Something I don't like too much, is having someone say "nice shot" when I make a nice shot hehe.
It seems to disturb my focus on the next shot because you are obliged to stop and look at him and say "thanks".
:smile: That's in my Gamesmanship book, under "compliments". Here is the text, including the recommended response:
Compliments
This is an insidious effort, and one of the easiest to implement. Clothed in good sportsmanship, its deadly effects develop over the length of a match. In the beginning, if you are partial to being flattered, you can be easily pushed into over-confidence. Achieving any kind of smug assumption of competence has proven over and over to lead to false pride.
To quote the King James Version, Proverbs 16:18 "Pride goeth before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall." By stepping into the trap of prideful fantasy, you carelessly attempt shots that deserve thoughtful consideration and caution. By the time your ego balloon is deflated and you descend back into harsh reality, you have given him several free chances to win.
If you are not an easy victim of flattery, then your opponent's compliments become irritants. The more you hear, the less you want to hear - a reaction desired by your opponent. It starts out with the standard "Good shot." Then he includes additional commentary such as, "You must have worked pretty hard to master that type of shot." This is followed by other compliments, like, "You're a pretty good shooter." and "That was excellent control." and "I've seen a lot of shooters. You're on your way to becoming one of the better players."
He watches closely to determine your reactions. If he sees you smile and act slightly embarrassed, it is working. When you include a "Thank you", he has the go ahead to continue with more of the same.
If you are not responding to his flattery, the same words can be turned into an annoyance. To do this, he begins to compliment you on shots that do not deserve even the most minor recognition. Even on the simplest efforts, he expresses praise with "Pretty good shooting." He continues saying admiring statements for any shot, however awful.
To this false idolization, he begins saying "Good try." on misses. Sometimes he mixes it up with an "Almost." This just adds insult to injury. Not only are you relinquishing your turn, he is making a point of telling you the obvious.
Response
If you have full control of your mental faculties, you can easily ignore his efforts. Continue to focus on your analysis, routines, and proper execution to ensure that none of this affects you. It helps to be able to develop a deaf ear.
If you are "sensitive" to actions and sounds around you, then your only chance to stave off his efforts is to immediately become pro-active. Return the shark back at him. Use slightly more enthusiasm and add an additional adjective or adverb to the complimentary statements. Feel free to ramble. If this starts affecting him, continue.
After some period of time, you might want to offer a truce. Negotiate a deal to cease and desist, and get on with the game. That should end it. Keep in mind that one agreement doesn't mean he is prevented from pulling something else out of his bag of tricks. There are many tactics that do not depend on verbal communication.