Many years ago when I was no more than 18 yo, I stumbled into the New Green Room and they were having a large ( for that area ) APA open tournament. ( meaning it really didn't have anything to do with league play but you had to be an APA member to play in it and if I remember correctly it was for 6's and under. I have no idea what the rules are now just as I had no idea what the rules were then but I wasn't a member but wanted to play since I was there. Luckily for me, the TD was an old buddy from the pool room I started playing in when I was about 12. He let me sign up for an APA membership ( $25 ) and pay the entry fee ( think it was also $25 ). I straight robbed the thing and everyone was *****ing bad. To shut them up he moved me up to a 5 for the finals ( which really meant nothing as long as I was a 6 or below- the matches were not handicapped ) . Anyway I took it off and it paid between $550-$600. This was my only experience in an APA tournament. I was not told that I couldn't play in any future ones. What I'm getting at is as someone else said or asked, is it possible that you complained a lot and that is why you are no longer welcome? Not saying you did, but I could totally see that happening to someone.
To the " second ball " break - why do you not like it so much? I rarely ever play 8 ball, but when I do and if I'm allowed to I ALWAYS break that way. I think anyone that knows anything about pool would probably tell you that is the best way to break 8 ball. Not only does it give you the best chance to make the 8 onot the break, but it also gives you the best chance to pocket other balls AND IMO gives you the best spread of the balls. 1 caveat that I've found though, you do need to take a little off of your break when hitting the second ball or you are at a higher risk of jumping the cue off of the table. So we're you just unfamiliar with that break and scared to use it and were mad others were effectively using it against you? Or what was the problem?