It's all so dang complicated. I recently switched from an 11.8mm top-of-the-line, high tech, low deflection shaft to a 1950ish Brunswick Master Stroke. The Brunswick probably hurts my performance, and it has a huge taper roll, and the butt is ridiculously thick, but it's soooooo cool, and I love it.
I'm not even sure if I care about winning at pool. When I play really well, most people just feel bad - if I hit a couple incredible shots and lose, everyone is happier. The other day I kept winning, and my friend's kid was getting pissed about it, so thank goodness he won the last game against me - I was afraid I might win again, which would have made no one happy. He got the best of both worlds: I looked like I was pretty good, and he won a couple games against me.
My main goal is to have fun and encourage others to have fun - if me winning will frustrate them and make them want to stop playing, I just hope I lose. If I lose, then they'll play me again, and I can have cool people around who will play pool with me.
I will say my OB Phoenix III is really high-performance. I don't like the LD trend, but for people who want a performance advantage, the OB Phoenix is an option, and at least it isn't CF. No one pays me to say that - it's just my opinion.
I hate CF shafts like I hate the taste of canned beets. It's an aesthetics thing, like some people like the smell of patchouli (hippies) and some hate it (yuppies).