I'm not saying It's a better way to go, because It could be a very subjective matter, but If Using a standard 18tpi collar such as the 1 in KJ's link, Then It really doesn't take as much to get a snug enough fit with a acme tenon as one might think, and the smaller the OD on the tenon the easier the fit will be. I'm only using this as an example, but If the threads are good, then the tips don't need to be that deep to get something that can actually be clamped down tight without stripping the treads, so if the tenon only needs to be slightly under sized to make a good fit, then It would be plenty good enough to get the job done. How undersized You go can reduce surface contact though, and depending on how much that could create more of a void for glue then You may want, so Might want to draw a hard line on just how small is acceptable to the individual, because that's an area that can be very subjective, but technically speaking It will still work. If your able to cut both parts to acme then that may be even better, but It's possible to run into similar problems, and still have to either decrease the male or increase the female for the correct feeling fit. Once You figure out something you can live with though, don't do like I often do and not write it down, make sure to log them, and also Log in the materials that You used. Believe It will save you from having to figure It out again. Just about every size or thread pitch I use, I try to custom fit everything that way. I don't want a sloppy fit, but at the same time I don't want them so tight that It creates some kind of internal pressure, and/or creates a dry socket.
Greg