Lighten up, don't look for an excuse to get mad!
I do not use the term "oriental" for people mainly because I've recently learned that some people, for whatever reason, find it offensive. I recently asked my Asian (Filipina) wife what she thought about it. She had no idea that anyone found it offensive!
That being said, I don't find any of the names applied to white people as being offensive to me and feel that people who are offended by such words are just too thin skinned! I think racial tensions would be much less problematic if people were to just remember what their mommy told them when they were a child, "sticks and stones......."
In the rare cases where the words are meant to be offensive, usually if you'd just consider the source, you'd see that the offender is making a fool of himself! In the cases where the words aren't meant to be hurtful, a wise person overlooks them or if the person is someone they care about, informs the individual that it's better said another way. In any case I don't see how a confrontation is a positive thing. It's usually just a misunderstanding!
just more hot air!
Sherm
Sweet Marissa said:I have Asian, black, hispanic, and white friends who find that term used to describe Asians equally offensive.
I do not use the term "oriental" for people mainly because I've recently learned that some people, for whatever reason, find it offensive. I recently asked my Asian (Filipina) wife what she thought about it. She had no idea that anyone found it offensive!
That being said, I don't find any of the names applied to white people as being offensive to me and feel that people who are offended by such words are just too thin skinned! I think racial tensions would be much less problematic if people were to just remember what their mommy told them when they were a child, "sticks and stones......."
In the rare cases where the words are meant to be offensive, usually if you'd just consider the source, you'd see that the offender is making a fool of himself! In the cases where the words aren't meant to be hurtful, a wise person overlooks them or if the person is someone they care about, informs the individual that it's better said another way. In any case I don't see how a confrontation is a positive thing. It's usually just a misunderstanding!
just more hot air!
Sherm