Yep.... I see it all the time.
Consider it the "Nature of the Beast" so to say. Handicap Systems can work, but seldom do. It has been my experience that those players who are closer in ranking tend to benefit from the handicap; however, if there is a larger gap between the two players' ratings, the upper rating usually wins. Example a 9 vs a 5, the 9 will usually (not always) win.
I agree with Double D. "You can't give a player any heart." I have competed against semi-pros to a race to 7 and have faired well in the past. For me, that might be winning four or five games, only to lose; however, I did get their attention (and from some players, compliments on my improvment and their respect as a shooter). If I can win four games against, let's say Shane Jackson, Marty Lawson, Shane Morrow, etc, Hell... I'm a happy camper (or they are being generous) :thumbup:
To quote I believe Wimpy Lassiter, "If you need weight, you need practice." :thumbup:
Just my opinion....