Thank you for sharing this. I walked out this morning and was cold in the 60 degree temperature, wishing I had put on a sweatshirt.
It is important to read such stories and remember the sufferings of people like Abe. As I read I thought of how petty my discomfort was and how I was only a few seconds away from the warmth of my home.
To read and remember the loss and atrocities committed during the War put things in perspective quickly. I doubt I would have survived.
To Mr. Rich,
May you never be forgotten.....
I was in Subic Bay in '77 when a typhoon wreaked havoc in the area. Weather was so bad that the ship I was on had to weather the storm asea.
Me and 12 other guys volunteered to bring relief rations to villages that had been 'hardest hit'. Uh, Ok. That's one way to describe it.
My reference to what you were saying is this-it is DIFFICULT, at best, to try to convey the real despair and hopelessness that we as humans feel without having been sufferers of same.
One of my life's most poignant lessons was when we pulled into one of those villages-guys walking around with AKs ( we were instructed to SAY NOTHING-just drop the stuff in some villages)...monkeys screaming in the trees...the stench of the places...young children laughing and shouting at us as they followed our small convoy.
One of those children, a little girl of maybe 10 or 12, was smiling and laughing at us-and I will never forget the sores she had all over her-about the size of Dollar pieces...laughing and reaching up to try to get us to give her something..ANYTHING.
And I remember thinking what a piece of shit I was for being upset that my TV had went on the fritz...such shame...
Here she was with NOTHING-they lived in huts without electricity and such, and in her eyes you could see she knew no better and was smiling and happy at me, and through her suffering drove a spike through my soul and destroyed any possibility of ever,again, being ungrateful for having the life I do.
It's practically impossible to put yourself in the shoes of other people, to vicariously live their lives and be thankful for all that YOU DO HAVE...without experiencing the tragedies that mold our fellow travelers.
When I think life has dealt me a poor hand or been unkind to me I cannot run from the vision of her smiling face and the sores all over her...it's not even worthy of a whack to the back of my head...the truth that I have been blessed and fortunate to not have suffered like this little gal and the Rich family...to name a few of our compadres.
And I also believe that there is a palpable, inherent, value in possessing a cue or ANYTHING made by people such as the Rich family, and that it is a gift of sorts of remembering something of character formed by hands that ACTUALLY cared and TOOK PRIDE in what they did.
Compare it to possessing a chest of drawers made by a craftsman in colonial Willimsburg or...I don't know, Ikea...get it?
Like the sentiments shared by "Macguy"-he has the 'privilege' of being able to say, "I meant so much to Abe that I hurt his feelings." And vice versa.
And how great to have finally mended the fences of the egos involved before it was too late!
And Hemingway's advice of writing drunk and editing sober? I have dispensed with such nonsense:grin: so my apologies...

Hell, I'm in Vegas afterall. And what's written in Vegas...stays...