That is one of the main reasons I stay away from leagues.
I play to "WIN" and I expect the rest of the team to do the same.
Also, I expect everybody on the team to pay attention to the table and not be standing around BSing and playing on their phone when their opponent is at the table.
Social hour can be held AFTER we destroy our opponents.
FWIW, I only played BCA for two years when I lived in Grand Forks, ND many moons ago. We won the championship two years in a row. I had the highest rating and highest statistics for the league both years.
Excellent choice for you, and kudos to you for knowing the difference and being able
to recognize it. Leagues not for you, you require a much higher level of competition
for your own satisfaction.