I miss Wisconsin so much. They have etiquette and strong players who are respectable and love to pass on their knowledge. People aren't categorized by their number or their skill level (C,B, etc.).
I'm playing in the APA in Chicago... and I just hate it. I'm rated as a 4 (from a year and a half ago before I was in Green Bay for a year) and coming back home to Chicago... I am definitely not a 4/5 (just got bumped to a 5) in 8 ball. My average game lasts 2 innings (and the highest a game has gone was 4 innings) so far, and every set I've won either 3-1, or 4-1.
I'm playing a guy last night (he's a 6), and this is the shot (I'm on the hill at 3-1). He's got all of his balls on the table, and my 5 ball is almost hanging in the side. His 13 ball is half a diamond away and half a diamond out (from the side pocket), I play my 5 ball in the side, and come off the rail to hit his 13 to stop the CB for a shot on the 8 in the side.
This guy gets up, and says foul! Claiming that I hit his 13 first... "otherwise it wouldn't have moved at all." We argue, and he calls the TD over... and since I don't have proof that I didn't hit his ball he gets ball in hand, and I win anyway. Somewhere in this arguing he says: "You're a 5, I'm a 6, I know what I'm doing way more than you do."
This really bothered me, but it's pretty common out here and I hate it sooo much. I play pool to get better, and I play pool to get to the top of my game. To be told that I can and can't do something because of a number on paper just infuriates me - I'm guilty of this too, but I try to avoid this as much as possible. If somebody is a legit 4 then I don't expect them to be able to play a 4 rail kick shot, and if somebody is a legit 7 then I expect them to pick better position play and patterns than I see them playing.
The APA just baffles me... especially now that I've been exposed to legitimate good pool. I doubt I'll be able to stomach this much more.
Rant over.
EDIT: I'll try and get a pic up of the shot once pool.bz is back up and running.
Maybe your problem is more Chicago than the APA? There's good and bad everywhere, but big cities can be rough on the mind and soul....especially compared to Wisconsin. I took a few seminars in Madison and loved the area.
All I can say is keep learning and try to tune-out the idiots the best you can. If you can manage to not be bothered by them, you'll sleep better at night.
But by all means write their name down and kick their ass on the table someday
