try diplomacy...
From your post, I believe that you can be difficult to deal with if things aren't going your way. Usually, if problems and concerns are handled in a calm and rational manner, all parties will come to some sort of understanding. I understand that you feel victimized by the tour director. Without knowing all the facts I cannot give my opinion as to who is right or wrong, but I don't think that public trashing is the way to go.
P.S. take an English writing course or something....
instroke75 said:Hi folks, I was just curious what the people on here thought of this. I was recently barred from playing on the Kings Bay Amateur tour for winning the seasons point race! Although i never won a single tournament! Granted i did cash regularly, but it's not like i dominated the tour, or scared anyone off!
I sorta feel like this was personal, since we(me and the tour director-Kay Higgins, recently had a run-in when i questioned her about some bonus points she had given to another player, for leaving a tournament at Fastbreaks in Longwood, which had cancelled her tournament and scheduled their own, which once i was there, decided to play in. She acted like we should leave to show loyalty to her tour, last i checked i'm not under contract to her, and i work for a living! But she gave the people who left bonus points!
When i questioned her about it , i told her it was bullshit. And she acted like i cussed her like a sailor! Then all of the sudden i was the worse person on tour, and a bad sport because i don't like to lose! excuse me! i'm competitive, i don't want to lose to Efren if i can help it! So then when i do win the points race suddenlyi'm exempt for the next season for winning the points race, even though no other season's points winner was barred the next season,and unlike me thay actually won several tournaments to win the points whereas i just went to alot of events and was a consistent casher! SHE WONDERS WHY THE NUMBERS ON HER TOUR ARE DOWN!!!!!!!!
please tell me how crooked this sounds! thanks, jeremy
From your post, I believe that you can be difficult to deal with if things aren't going your way. Usually, if problems and concerns are handled in a calm and rational manner, all parties will come to some sort of understanding. I understand that you feel victimized by the tour director. Without knowing all the facts I cannot give my opinion as to who is right or wrong, but I don't think that public trashing is the way to go.
P.S. take an English writing course or something....