My Convictions
This really sounds like you and your philosophy need to mature. You HAVE to play better players so long that it takes away your heart. If you never learn to overcome losing hope, you will always be losing hope.
A bad beat takes me minutes to get over.
This is one of the things that separates those who know how to play from those who know how to win. Make no mistake about it, winning is a skill that has to be learned.
dld
Should I mature? perhaps, but I stand by my convictions, I'm 51 yrs. have been playing pool for 39 years, and have made a living at it 32 of them, 25 of which were on the road, I've never cheated or dumped a person out of a quarter.
Some pool players have heart, some don't, but the ones that do will Never Ever let someone take the heart they have from them, because they are winners!, you do have to learn to loose to become a winner.
You say a bad beat takes you minutes to get over, well good for You!
What is a bad beat to you? is it loosing by 4 games going 11, is it loosing the match hill/hill by choking on the money ball for the tournament win? or is it loosing by 30 games playing by the game?
The first scenario you may get over in a few minutes, the second takes alittle time , more for some & less for others, and the third scenario takes a good while, I don't care who you are!
You did make a great point though, winning is a skill that has to be learned!
Have a Great Day!
David Harcrow