Wow - thanks for all of the advise and conversation everyone! In case this helps, here is some information on "Miss Q" that might be helpful:
(1) I have been playing pool for about 16-years, on and off.
(2) I will be 33 years old in a couple of months.
(3) I wear contact lenses.
(4) I am 5'-9" tall, and weigh 149 pounds, and enjoy long walks on the beach.
(5) I do in fact play with a Meucci, but it is about 19.5 to 20 oz. (I got it as a gift, so I do not know the exact weight).
(6) When the cue ball goes "boing", it usually jumps right over the object ball, and if I'm really lucky, right off the table. This gives me the opportunity to meet the folks playing on the table next to me.
(7) I dare say that I have never "tucked" or "rolled", at least not on purpose. I have read that thread and in my opinion, it seemed like a bad idea.
So...I'm thinking that I'm hitting the cue ball too low?